little late to jump into this thread but i liked your story and how your career shifted, mine shifted as well but that didn't shift my personality, my lifestyle, ect.
I previously worked security, rode a motorcycle, managed a rock band in chicago, was a guy that had "baldness" as you call it and people wanted me on their side in a fight.
now, I have a MBA, Work as a finance manager for a large company, have 12 direct reports, ---- still sly, still ride, people would still want me on their side in a fight.
My "Career" is not filled with "baldness" but my life is. My identiy and life is not wrapped up in the job. My beard gets a little long from time to time and I have to trim it back, but after I am done for the day I jump on my bike and ride home forgetting all the "troubles" of the day..