What do you guys do to keep excitement and boldness in your lives (for your own sake)? Or, are your kids and careers enough and leave you just wanting a comfortable Laz-E-Boy in the evenings?
Being tough will only occur as a result of dealing with life like a real man... being a good parent, treating your wife with love and respect, speaking up when others are to chicken to do so... you know the things that are much tougher than getting your ass kicked in a bar fight.
Well, maybe I'm the only one who desires this in himself. But I doubt it. Anyway--I'm facing a bit of a dilemma in life right now. I'm 22 and in law school. I have, for various reasons, gone from planning on applying to be a breaking-down-the-door FBI Special Agent to being a behind-the-desk lawyer. My life's career has subsequently lost all of its "Baldness".
I fear I'm spending too much time on this forum when I've got a big legal memo due next Monday!
I agree that Marz (and pretty much everoyne else) is right that manliness or whatever is exhumed by living virtuously in daily life. I really like that, I'll have to keep it in mind.
Oh, I'm an absolutely fanatical weight lifter. I'm always sore. But some football does sound like a good idea. And beer is always on the menu, though I have to limit it for financial reasons (both my wife and I are full time students).