Guys I Need Major Help With A Girl Issue!!!!

[schro]

your just not going to get it are you??

Sorry bro'

Tucker, I'd have to agree with Nomad. Reading the posts you've made, you've got it bad for this gal. Despite a pledge to "not want a relationship", this gal totally knows it and is playing you. Trying to find activities to do with her? 

Major Help with a Girl Issue? 
Here's "Major" Help......try this new activity....putting your line in the water at a different lake and hooking a new one. 


Sorry if that's a punch in the gut, but it had to be said.

[Tucker-54]

I hear what you guys are saying. I think that theres so much going on in my life that I like someone to talk to, and she always is there to talk. She makes EVERYTHING feel okay in the end. I Think thats why I like her so much. I'm like a fly to the UV light. She does all this stuff to annoy me or make me want to be done but I just can't....

[champ007]

your just not going to get it are you??

Sorry bro'

Major Help with a Girl Issue? 
Here's "Major" Help......try this new activity....putting your line in the water at a different lake and hooking a new one. 


Sorry if that's a punch in the gut, but it had to be said.

LOL, the problem shro is he casted and ended up in the trees, his line hasn't hit the water yet or we wouldn't be having this dicussion!!!

Tucker, you need to go pickup a chic that you can just knock the bottom out for a few hours. Sounds like your clogged up and its about to run outta your ears, causing you to not see things real clear. You have gotten alot of good advice, hell like 7 pages of it... its like the saying you can lead a horse to water but ya can't make him drink.
I am not saying your gonna forget about this chic, but sexual therapy will at least get the frustration gone.
Remember, there is always some type of lesson in the most difficult things we have to do, thats why they are so hard!!!!

[PBurke]

THE BEST WAY TO GET OVER THE LAST ONE IS TO GET ON TOP OF THE NEXT ONE!!!!!

[Razor X]

Tucker's received a lot of advice on this matter.  Whether or not he chooses to follow it is up to him.  I know we'd all like to save him a lot time and trouble with this, but sometimes people have to find out for themselves.  How many of us followed the advice of a bunch of 30-and 40-year-old somethings when we were 17?  I know I didn't.   

[FR8TRAIN]

Tucker, you need to go pickup a chic that you can just knock the bottom out for a few hours. Sounds like your clogged up and its about to run outta your ears, causing you to not see things real clear.

THAT"S A FACT!!!

[TheTrucker]

I'm late to the party here but in my experience you can't make a relationship happen. They evolve naturally on their own or not at all. The harder one tries to push into a relationship the less likely it's ever going to happen.

As much as you might care for this person just let things happen naturally and keep your own options open. It would be a real shame to miss out on a great natural relationship because you were too focused on one that might not ever be meant to be.

I have a number of female friends so I know that men and women certainly can be friends. Sometimes that's enough and in some ways better as romantic relationships can become  complicated pretty quickly at times.

Take what ya have and, like I said, keep your options open.

[Tucker-54]

I think what it is is that I don't know people that I can "wam bam thank you ma'am". Ha cuz I'd totally do it. I'm just attached to this girl, but its getting better. I am getting over her. I think that its going so slow is because I'm not interested in anyone else. especially since school is out, there are WAY less chances to meet the female breed. I think maybe instead of finding a replacement to find things to do to get my mind off of her? Because even though I live in SAnta Barbara CAlifornia, the hottie capital of the world second to south beach FL, it doesn't mean that finding someone my age is possible. And I doubt a college girl will go for a guy like me, but ya never know.

And i really DO appreciate all your input. I thnk its helping alot. As alot of you know from experience, its complicated and hard to get over a girl you thought was the right one.

[FR8TRAIN]

I think maybe instead of finding a replacement to find things to do to get my mind off of her? Because even though I live in SAnta Barbara CAlifornia, the hottie capital of the world second to south beach FL, it doesn't mean that finding someone my age is possible. And I doubt a college girl will go for a guy like me, but ya never know.

C'mon Tucker...who says she has to be your age? Throw your MAC out there and get some.

You can't catch fish if you don't go fishing!!!!

[no1birdman]

Hi, there are  thousands  of women out there, u get a certain type who love the look, good god i can still pull at nearly 60.You do not always  get more women sly but them you do get wow. do what the man says go hunting

[Jer]

I think maybe instead of finding a replacement to find things to do to get my mind off of her? Because even though I live in SAnta Barbara CAlifornia, the hottie capital of the world second to south beach FL, it doesn't mean that finding someone my age is possible. And I doubt a college girl will go for a guy like me, but ya never know.

C'mon Tucker...who says she has to be your age? Throw your MAC out there and get some.

You can't catch fish if you don't go fishing!!!!

Very true, and in fact I've never been one to go after my age...
Cougars...   

[BlackJamesRackham]

I tend to usually like girls that are older. Not way older, but just a couple years older.

[Tucker-54]

OK, of course the girls older than me are WAY hotter, like early 20's and college. but the trick is how do i get them?

[PBurke]

1. confidence
2. don't try to hard
3. conidence
4. be yourself
5. confidence
6. (and most importantly)  CONFIDENCE

[FR8TRAIN]

OK, of course the girls older than me are WAY hotter, like early 20's and college. but the trick is how do i get them?

Just like fishing young buck. Put some bait (your sly self) on a hook and toss it in the water. If you don't catch any fish, change locations (lakes, parks, etc.). You've already got something that's a babe magnet (that cute little pug dog). Take him for a walk in a crouded area and the girls/laydays will be swarming all over you. I can hear it now, "Awh, how cute." "What's it's name?" Now go get'm tiger!