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SOS I suffer a great deal!
Mikekoz13:
Hey Fred ..... Look at my photo. I'm not exactly blessed with the world's greatest looks.
But I have been blessed with a real sense of who I am as a man. You can work on this my Friend. Be a good man and your confidence in yourself will grow.
You can find your answers in your own heart thru thought and your own Faith.
baldtribesman:
I did a pic just now despite my phobia of having my pic taken to show you guys the most current photo of me and more close up then the previous photo. I am not much of a babe magnet if not monsterous looking in my own eyes. I would define myself as having a ghoulish looking face. If I do turns heads its because I scare people.
Fred
sq:
--- Quote from: baldtribesman on April 26, 2010, 06:53:47 PM ---Yes I am getting professional and I make some progress if my general mood but the feeling that my face is ugly is very deeply ingrained in me, next week I am starting Cognitive Behavioral Therapy on an outpatient basis at a hospital. However I want the truth I want to hear from guys on this forum what I look like for real, for real not to flatter me or make me feel better, but the honest to g-d truth about my face. I will find it hard to believe it when a psychologist or other clinical professional tells me what the deal is because as my former professor in college once said "psychologist and psychiatrists are like prostitutes they get paid to be your friend"
You guys here are not paid by me or forced to, this is a fraternity of real men, good men, and I appreciate your honest and candid viewpoints.
Fred
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sq:
opps didn't to that right
I had to reply to the bit about a college professor and "paid friends" - and I should say I'm not a psychologist or in any similar profession - you could make the same comment about any profession that you pay by the hour (humourous possibilities there) - just because one professor said something witty does not make it true - I would think that going in thinking "you are a charlatan" is not going to assist in the efficacy of any treatment - I would offer another possible way of vieiwing psychologists - in alot of ways they are similar to rabbis/priests/pastors - these are people who are attempting to assist you with resolving problems in how you face the world -
baldtribesman:
sq you are right, when I start therapy this week I will make an effort to have a positive attitude. But hey the proof is in the putting, prostitution and porn where made for me. I am ugly and I cannot get girls.
Lets follow the logic-
Good looking guy + confidence=>babe magnet
Ugly guy+ Confident (I say confident because I have some talents and strong points and I know I am special and unique, but in the looks department I am severly lacking => Not only not a babe magnet but a babe repellent.
and heres the last piece of logic
babe repellent=>cannot be succesful with women
cannot be succesful with women=>Lonely and horny
Lonely and horny=>Loneliness persist and for horniness I would have to resort to paying a babe or getting my kicks with porn.
So the conclusion is that I am a babe repellant but I dream of being a babe magnet.
Follow my logic?
Fred
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