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pdxtodd:
Fred you're a good looking guy. I thought that all along. Its interesting though that we project our self image to others around us. I applaud you for sharing your story with us. I am sure that you're not the only one out there who feels the same way. I think you're a good looking guy -- I would introduce you to any of my single women friends in without reservation. Be confident that you're a good looking guy, throw away all the mirrors, smile and watch the reaction of others to your smile and confidence.
aarrggh:
Dammit Fred ; you need too get away for a bit --" take a vacation "
Don`t waste money on a problem that does`nt exist . . . . .
Razor X:
Fred, without naming names, what do you think when you see the photos of the other members here? Some are inevitably better looking than others. How would you rank yourself in comparison to the others here and why?
DuffRyder17:
Wow, tribe I got a lot of respect for you... it takes a Man to open up and share his insecurities.
Let me start out by saying that you are a good looking dude...
and let me share something about myself.
I used to spend hours a week standing in front of the mirror wondering what I would look like with a prominent Jaw and chin. I can even say I'd rather have a strong jaw than have my hair back. and I told myself if I ever get the money I would get the plastic surgery.
I spend ridiculous amounts of time wishing and worrying. My subconscious has become conscious, when I check out girls I look at their jaw more than any other feature... It's absurd, but I can't help it.
Generally speaking, I do not have abnormal problems meeting/dating women. however deep down I feel like my jaw is inadequate.
I did see the shrink here at school and it did help. the thing is the most freeing is when I don't allow myself to linger in front of the mirror and I just go out and Be Myself.
everyone has insecurities, even the Brad Pitts of the world
andrew:
Fred, Fred, Fred, Fred, Fred ....
You're a normal looking guy. What's all the worrying about? Take a look at my mug. It ain't pretty my friend and I'm overweight (which I'm working on). But, women have always liked me. I've never had a problem finding girlfriends (when I was single). As many of the other guys have mentioned already, it's all about confidence and the image you're projecting. If you're constantly worrying about being ugly, you'll project the image of being ugly.
One thing that's worked well for me is to smile all of the time. It helps in every type of social setting and at work. Be friendly to women and everyone and you'll find them coming to you.
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