I've been shaving my head for a while now, but the problem is this hasn't brought peace to my problem. All I want is to be just like you guys and just accept that my hair is gone. The problem is that when I look at what I used to look like and what I look like now, I dont know I just get depressed. I'm only 18 so its just hard, most girls glance over me without ever a passing glance. You know I honestly think it wouldnt be that bad if I looked goood bald, but the problem is I simply don't, and other people have told me I dont to. Some people tell me I like good, but I don't know if this is more sympathy than anything. I think I look good from the front bald I really do I'm told I have a handsome face... the problem is my head seems to stretch far back, it was always kind of a problem when I had hair but its even worse bald. That and my long face makes the whole picture just look wierd (face in one corner 3/4 of huge bald stretch limo head.) I wonder sometimes if all this is in my head, but than I look at pictures of me bald and think no its not just in your head. I try so so so hard to quit the constant onslaught of pity and negative comments in my head. I tell myself all the time you look good, its just hair, just keep your mind off of it and you will start to not care so much anymore. Only to an hour later be thinking man if only I had hair life would be so much better. I just want to honestly stop thinking like this because its only negatively effecting me and no matter how much I want it back my hair is gone for life. It would be better if I could just accept this and move on but you have to admit that when you go from looking good to looking ugly.. I dont know you guys seem like you've got it all together, any advice would help. Sorry I can't post a picture don't really have a way to upload one.