what's the secret all you daters???

[hotrn]

here's my problem. i'm very shy around women. i have no confidence in the way i look , except that my slyness looks good on me. i'll be 22 in dec. and i've never been kissed or THE OTHER  before either.                ( shocking ain't it!) so can anyone give me some advice on how to get a date. i need help in all areas ( i.e. clothes, actions, words, ect.) any help is appreciated. thx guys.

[vampire]

Hello, why do you think you  look good if you have not had any success, obviously you need to change your look, post a picture of yourself , look at David Beckham,s style and you will not go far wrong, if you look hot you will have us women running.

[Timmay]

hotrn.....you need to check out the candy from strangers thread...maybe that look will be good for you LOL

[Brkeatr]

hotrn.....you need to check out the candy from strangers thread...maybe that look will be good for you LOL

Your sooooo bad Timmay......lol

[PowerOfCheese]

Hey man, I don't really have any pick up lines or advice to give on how to be successful at picking up women. Not everyone is blessed with irresistible charm and knee weakening good looks like me.   Some people get women because they're funny, smooth talkers, look good, cool, rich, smart, dorky, or just plain DO IT for their female counterpart.

The biggest improvement you can do in this area starts from within. Try reading Awaken The Giant Within by Anthony Robbins. Seriously. Effin read it. Twice.

It probably sounds like BS or something you can't fix but if you put more effort into building confidence the rest will get easier.  A cool shirt and a pair of jeans will only take you so far. There are a lot of lonely women you're age so quit horsing around and fix this confidence thing you have goin on so you can get busy.  

[Tom McGarry.]

I think that the biggest problem in your statment is, that you said you have NO confidence in yourself!! You should really work on that first, because all the nicest clothes, smoothest pick up lines in the world, won't mean squat if you don't have any confidence in your self. Take pride in who you are as a person and work on your confidence, and all the rest will fall into place.

Clothes and looks are shallow, but combine that with confidence and pride in yourself, and watch out!!!

[Timmay]

hotrn.....you need to check out the candy from strangers thread...maybe that look will be good for you LOL

But.....they say I am fun....


Your sooooo bad Timmay......lol

[TwistedLefty]

What Tom said,
Women are attracted to confidence.

you need to project an aire of "they want what i got more than i want what they got" and you have to believe it.

without it, all is lost

[Mikekoz13]

Dude.... confidence and a sense of humor.

Women love confident, funny guys.............

[PigPen]

I got the funny part down, but looks ain't everything!!!

Seriously, confidence is the biggest thing. Maybe persistence too, not to the point of stalking someone though.

[TwistedLefty]

i also agree with a sense of humor being very important, but i think you also need to be confident to display that as well.

nothing gets someone to drop their guard better, than making them laugh.

[nomad]

brother good looks and cool clothes are good

being funny is great but....

if you lack the CONFIDENCE to put it all together your lost

you have got to work on your CONFIDENCE with out it nothing else matters

sure you might get "lucky" once in a while but you'll never get anything real

[RockloudRockhard88]

one name "Quagmire" thats all ya need to know lmao... just kidding but seriously first off just be yourself im 20 going on 21 and i got girls all the time back in high school but it all comes from within you have to be confident and be happy with yourself and be calm cool and just be yourself!!!!!!

[GASlick]

Confidence is the key.  In yourself.
I'm amazed you're 22 and never been kissed.  The other, well I can understand that.  I was in college before I did IT.
But, kissed?

[hotrn]

YEA, SAD AIN'T IT! i've never been kissed. that's no lie or strecth of the truth. not even a peck on the cheek!