what's the secret all you daters???

[warhawk]

hey h-rn:   like my sly brothers have mentioned... once U get that confidence everything else will follow.   btw... judging from your avatar name (hotrn)... if U work as a registered nurse in a hospital... u must work with a lot of women.  if so... how do U relate 2 your female co-workers? 

WARHAWK

[marty22]

Confidence, clothes and a bit of panache certainly help.

[hotrn]

i don't work in a hospital. i work in an all male prision as the 3rd shift rn.

[warhawk]

i don't work in a hospital. i work in an all male prision as the 3rd shift rn.

why don't U try 2 work in a hospital?   we need more RNs in hospitals.

WARHAWK

[Alexander215]

Hey man, I don't really have any pick up lines or advice to give on how to be successful at picking up women. Not everyone is blessed with irresistible charm and knee weakening good looks like me.   Some people get women because they're funny, smooth talkers, look good, cool, rich, smart, dorky, or just plain DO IT for their female counterpart.

The biggest improvement you can do in this area starts from within. Try reading Awaken The Giant Within by Anthony Robbins. Seriously. Effin read it. Twice.

It probably sounds like BS or something you can't fix but if you put more effort into building confidence the rest will get easier.  A cool shirt and a pair of jeans will only take you so far. There are a lot of lonely women you're age so quit horsing around and fix this confidence thing you have goin on so you can get busy.  

Great book! I also have it on audio book so I can listen to it on the bus. Love his stuff.

[hotrn]

i can't afford to go to a hospital. i will have to take a $6 an hr. pay cut!!!! i am trying to get a rn management job with a large hospice group here. that will free up my nights and weekends so i can go out more.

[warhawk]

hey h-rn:  wow... that's a huge pay cut.   well... maybe when U get that hospice job  that will definitely give U a much higher percentage with working with women.  sorry... 2 hear about your lack of confidence.  hopefully... your new look will give U the "foundation" 4 some confidence.

WARHAWK

[Mr. Wilson]

Do you make the effort?  Do you ask women out or do you wait for them to show you signs that they like you?  You got to make things happen instead of waiting for them to happen.  I bet if you asked out 10 girls, 1 would say yes.

[Tyler]

Read the book "The Game" by Neil Strauss.  It should introduce you the world of PUA and how to build your confidence.

[champ007]

Get rid of the shyness and learn how to talk to women. Practice of any woman you meet, see how many you can make smile.
Clothes don't make a man and women know this, but they do like you to look nice.
Soon things will fall into place.

[Timmay]

Having trouble talkin to the women??  Well maybe you should host a fingernail painting party LOL 

Sorry bro, just being a wise arse today...

I never really had that problem but I do know it exists, because I have a friend who clams up when a woman approaches him..You should see him when a group of women approach him...he is basically lathargic..lol  Just hang in there an dthe more you go out and try...the easier it will come to you.
Good Luck

[timorousme]

Just remember, if that weird-looking Mystery dude from that show The Pickup Artist can be a master at getting women, you sure as hell can.

[DuffRyder17]

Well, here are the secrets to my A game.
High confidence, portray a high self esteem.
wear your favorite outfit(usually the newest and trendiest)
find your comfort zone, Talk to them(eventually work in a few lines/jokes)
usually alcohol is involved(gets me loose)

[Danny]

I've found that grocery stores are great places to meet women. Pretend you have no idea about cooking and ask a woman a question about something. Like "excuse me I'm a horrible cook and was wondering if you could tell me if these are easy to fix?". Or if there is a cute cashier go through her line every time you go there.

Laundromats are good too because the women are bored and have nothing to do for awhile. Ask them a question like "do you know how to work this thing?" while pointing to a washing machine. Just make sure you don't let her your drawers. lol

[jrob]

Lots of good advice already. Pick up lines are not the way to go. The key is to have confidence and believe in yourself. Just like other aspects of life, you will have some failures. Just keep trying to find the right one and you will find the right woman for you.

One of the keys is to be yourself. If you are humerous, woman love a funny man. Go to places where you can meet woman in a natural setting just to have a regular conversation to start building your confidence. Taking baby steps is a great way to boost your confidence.

You could take dancing lessons, where there should be many more woman than men. This will really help your odds. Do not try too hard to impress them. If you are a good guy, they will see it.