sorry i forgot to add this in my last post, but another thing you can do to feel good about yourself and have confidence is GET IN THE GYM!! get in shape, not only for the girls, but for yourself.... let me tell you, when you work out and you start to have a body that you like, your confidence goes up, and believe me, the ladies will notice.... so get in there pal, focus on getting in shape, getting buff and ripped, and youre good! it'll take time if you're not already active or in shape, but good things take time! girls also like a nice bod, if you got one of those, you can look like sloth from the goonies and still pick up chick, well maybe not sloth, but you get the point! just stay clean, get fit, HAVE CONFIDENCE, and you'll love life.
Hi guys, I noticed my hair thinning on top and slight recision at the temples last october, I use to have amazing long thick, dark, curly hair, and got alot of compliments for it. I remember saying to my sister few years ago I might get it cut short, both she and my cousin said but we like you with long hair. This memory makes feel really depressed.This has been really bothering me as i'm only 24, and my dad and grandad did'nt start balding until late 30's to 40's. I shaved it down to a no 2 a few month ago I still got interest from some girls and have since grown it out, which kinda made me feel abit better, but then again my balding is'nt really noticable, I considered taking propecia, until I read about it side effects and how it has ruined peoples lifes. Hair transplant look dreadful, my only hope is that hair cloning come out soon, but that seem to be a pipedream or atleast very far of.This has been driving me mad, and it feels like its ruining my life, its on my mind 24/7 I wear a hat to work all the time, it has caused me so much anxiety that I can't think straight, I make stupid mistakes at work, and that says something as the job I have is only an easy temp job until I find the job I want. Reading this forum has kind of made feel abit better, but then again all the guys on here seem to be in their 30's to 40's and married with kids, i'm only 24 and single, I just can't seem to imagine myself getting a girlfriend being bald, most girls in their 20's are shallow and have to a boyfriend that makes them look good in front of their friends.I know this will probably sound ridiculous to you guys but i've even had suicidal thoughts over this, because it holding me back in other areas of my life finding the job I want, the thought of having to endure peoples comments and sticking out like a sore thumb.I've tried to look for solutions by going on a forum called hairlosstalk which is very depressing, full of guys saying how their lifes have been ruined and that they can't get girls no more. I even read of one guy on here who said girls look at him in disgust when he tries dance or flirt with them in clubs, and that he a manic depressive because of it.Sorry for my depressing rant, but I would like to here if there are any other guys in their 20's who are bald but have been successful in finding a girlfriend or getting dates.
i'm only 24 and single, I just can't seem to imagine myself getting a girlfriend being bald, most girls in their 20's are shallow and have to a boyfriend that makes them look good in front of their friends.
Brother I am not young...but I was when I started to shave my full head of hair 13 years ago...Just look up the posts of the young dudes around here all in their early 20's, some MPB and some BBC...All these dudes love being bald and have totally gotten great response from the opposite sex..just from shaving their head smooth!Look up the young SLY dudes...ChicoD***Sticks***Jason FieberTuckerDimiakiraJmcmanaand I know there are a lot of others...Go shave your head bro..and let your new confidence get you dates!
[Hey what about me! A word to the young brutha, Life is too short to stress on your hair. Shave it off and you'll have the confidence to conquer all your past fears. Do it now and you won't have any regrets whatsoever.Cheer, Anthony
Quote from: rockandstroll on March 28, 2008, 01:57:40 PM i'm only 24 and single, I just can't seem to imagine myself getting a girlfriend being bald, most girls in their 20's are shallow and have to a boyfriend that makes them look good in front of their friends.Those aren't the girls you need anyway...