21 years old very scared please help

[wiener_bur]

I know I may have years to go but it's kinda weird to have corners like that at 21. I could understand if I was like in my late 20s or early 30s then that would be ok but at 21 it makes me believe once I'm in my late 20s/early 30s I will have a lot less hair, I just dunno. A few weeks I saw one gray hair on my beard. I dunno if it was coincidence or not but I don't think a gray hair just pops up for no reason. So it's only natural to get freaked out.

[Stu]

wiener,

Everyone is different.  Mother Nature doesn't care how old you are.  Some of us begin losing hair at an early age.  Some go gray early and keep all their hair.  I started getting gray in my beard before I ever had any gray on my head.  So whatever you have going on, don't think it's weird.  We're all unique -- embrace what life brings you.  And if the hair starts to go, go sly and enjoy life.  But definitely, DON'T try to cover it up.  It doesn't work and can only make you more paranoid about whether anyone can see what you are doing.  Trust me, if you find yourself looking at people with bad combovers or bad attempts to deny the obvious, you will be no more successful than them.  Welcome aboard.

[jmcmana]

Dude, I'm 23, and it started coming out, but I found the quick solution (trust me, if only all problems were that easy to solve)

Anyways, ask 100 girls what's attractive on a man and 100 times you will hear confidence. It's not about your hair, it's confidence. How else do you explain a guy like me getting women? I'm not a 10, but I damn sure walk around like I am (ha ha!).

Welcome to the site, now slick it off before summer

[Phantom]

According to www.baldingblog.com (yes, I have too much time on my hands these days), 95% of caucasion men will develope a "mature" hairline. The mature hairline is basically what Johnny Depp has in those pictures. The corners of the hairline recess somewhat, but it's not considered balding. According to the same website, which I believe is run by a Dr. Rasmussen, this can occur in men as early as puberty.

My hairline looks like that, or it did before I started shaving. I can't even remember when my hairline wasn't like that, and I'm 32. I wouldn't worry about it, but I guess if you really want to save your hair you could see a dermatologist, but I don't know if there are any gaurantees on that sort of thing.

[skinhead002]

I was 23(in 1983) when I shaved my head completely slick for the first time and I regret I waited that long(and I still have pretty much a full head of hair).  So what if it falls out by itself? Just take the Schick to it

[Sgt. Pate]

Welcome to SBG bro...

Don't let what others think control your life man.  Go SLY and take control of your look and I guarantee you'll feel a whole lot better!    Not to mention just how good you're going to look! 

[xnewyawka]

Welcome to SBG bro...

Don't let what others think control your life man.  Go SLY and take control of your look and I guarantee you'll feel a whole lot better!    Not to mention just how good you're going to look! 

I second the Sgt.!, do what you feel is right for you.   

And welcome to the SBG's site. Stick around, there's lots to learn here.