21 years old very scared please help

[wiener_bur]

I have noticed I have these corners on the front of my hair you know that V or M shape or receding hairline, whatever it's called. But otherwise I have nice thick and flaky hair. But does it mean it's a beginning of end? And not to mention last week I notice one gray hair on my beard how freaky is that? As for my genes nobody has greyed past 40 something and the only guys in my family who had hairloss are my father whose started in early 30s which was the crown and corners got more noticeable and now he is 64 and you can definitely see he has thining hair but it ain't too bad unlike others who only have hair on the sides and my uncle (mothers' brother) started in the early 30s some and now he is 40 but didn't get worse. Everybody else in my family just had those corners but no hairloss. I been going through a lot of emotional stress because for the past few years because of some things one of them are health problems like severe acid reflux which makes me miserable and more.

I don't have pictures of myself but I have 2 from Johnny Depp to show how my corners look like exactly, below are the links...

http://entimg.msn.com/i/300/mov/crybaby_jdepp_300x298.jpg

http://modernfads.com/userpanel/wp-content/uploads/2006/10/johnnydepp-sweeneytodd.jpg

[don]

Weiner,you're worrying needlessly.From the pictures of Johnny Depp you showed that hairline is very natural.Nobody's hairline is a straight line across their head. Everyone has a little indentation which is normal.I only wish I had your head of hair.Believe me you have nothing to worry about.

[wiener_bur]

I know corners are nothing but I read MPB starts with that M shape and then it goes from there and this scared me.

[jusbnme]

First off, welcome bro.  Dude, if your hair looks like Johnny Depps in those pics you showed you are worrying over nothing.  Besides you don't need to worry anyway man.  If you did happening to start thinning or going bald, which you definitely aren't from what you have shown, it's not a "bad" thing to be bald dude.  It's very liberating.  I actually like myself bald compared to old pics of me when I had a full head of hair.  I'm sure a lot of other guys that have gone down the sly path feel the exact same way.  So don't worry man.  It may seem like it right now but it really is no biggie.  I'm not trying to sound insensitive here.  It's just that I have heard others with your story before and it always ends up good.  Bald or not...Shaving or not....Stick around and make some new friends dude.  Maybe we can convince you to come to the sly side.   

[Tyler]

WB, welcome to Sly Bald Guys! 

I have a couple of friends who have had the V or M since high school and it's never receded any further.  So, until you start seeing it recede further or get thinner, I wouldn't worry too much.  Though, if you still can't get it out of your mind, give it a shave to see how you like the look.  You'll easily be able to grow it back.

[wiener_bur]

Well I assume that picture on the left is you if so then the bald look fits you well because you happen to be one of those big guy rugged manly man lol so a bald head just completes that persona. As for me I happen to be one of those pretty type boys and going bald will look really bad to me, hence I'm a type like Johnny Depp lol. Imagine if he goes bald he would look really retarted and that's me I'm talking about as well.

But then again thanks for coming my nerve guys. You see I happen to have the longer hair cut and today I backed it up and was like WTF!? I couldn't believe I had such corners.

[Tyler]

Well I assume that picture on the left is you if so then the bald look fits you well because you happen to be one of those big guy rugged manly man lol so a bald head just completes it. As for me I happen to be one of those pretty type boys and going bald will look really bad to me, hence I'm a type like Johnny Depp lol. Imagine if he goes bald he would look really retarted and that's me I'm talking about as well.

You'd be shocked at how you really look bald.  We hear it all the time here.  Once guys do it they ALWAYS say, "I wish I would have done it sooner. "

I recently had a group of friends shave their heads in support of our friend with cancer.  Even the "pretty boys" were shocked what they looked like and the comments they received.

[wiener_bur]

Forgot to mention I did have an almost shaved look about 2 years ago and it looked really bad, and btw...what you guys did for your friend is really good man. He should be happy to have friends like you I hope he is still here.

[jusbnme]

Well I assume that picture on the left is you if so then the bald look fits you well because you happen to be one of those big guy rugged manly man lol so a bald head just completes that persona. As for me I happen to be one of those pretty type boys and going bald will look really bad to me, hence I'm a type like Johnny Depp lol. Imagine if he goes bald he would look really retarted and that's me I'm talking about as well.

Dude, I'm not trying to sound like a dick at all but you're nuts man.  As most of us say around here, "There is no such thing as a bad looking bald head."  But yeah sure, some guys can look better with the slick look.  Guys that fit Johnny Depp's profile are probably some of the smoothest looking bald heads.  Man, Johnny Depp is my favorite actor of all times.  I would love to see him shave the dome.  I know what you're saying about a bigger and tougher looking guy rockin' the sly look better.  But that's just not true.  Yeah sure, the bigger guy might look tougher but that doesn't make him look "better" with the bald head.  You would be just fine if you ever decided to go the sly route. 

[wiener_bur]

You are right about one thing that a bald look can look to anybody of course you don't gotta be like a tough guy that a bald head will suit you. I have friends who don't look tough but their hair is maybe like 1/2 inch short and it suits them very well. but as for me like I said it'll look horrible I did it almost 2 years ago, I couldn't look at myself in the mirror for the next 3-4 months lol, And everybody constantly made comments too I didn't care it was fun but the appearance was awful and definitely no looks from the ladies 

Also here's another thing...when I was a teen I had tons of acne and it also looked really bad on me but I had friends their acne suit them well, now these days they have clear skin but for some reason they look better with the acne lol go figure...

[Tyler]

WB, have you heard of Neil Strauss?  If not, I recommend you read this blog post - http://www.slybaldguys.com/serendipity/archives/75-The-Game-Penetrating-the-Secret-Society-of-Pick-Up-Artists-by-Neil-Strauss.html

Also, you should go buy a book called To Be, or Not Be Intimidated: That is the question, by Robert Ringer.

Why do I suggest these books?  I think they will help you with your confidence.  The reality is that your appearance (not looks) are directly affected by your confidence.  The more confident you are, the better appearance you will have.   For example, if you're bald but have a lot of confidence you're going to score with more chicks and be looked up to more than if you had a full head of hair and no confidence at all. 

[jusbnme]

WB, have you heard of Neil Strauss?  If not, I recommend you read this blog post - http://www.slybaldguys.com/serendipity/archives/75-The-Game-Penetrating-the-Secret-Society-of-Pick-Up-Artists-by-Neil-Strauss.html

Also, you should go buy a book called To Be, or Not Be Intimidated: That is the question, by Robert Ringer.

Why do I suggest these books?  I think they will help you with your confidence.  The reality is that your appearance (not looks) are directly affected by your confidence.  The more confident you are, the better appearance you will have.   For example, if you're bald but have a lot of confidence you're going to score with more chicks and be looked up to more than if you had a full head of hair and no confidence at all. 

Well said Tyler.   

[Mikekoz13]

WB, have you heard of Neil Strauss?  If not, I recommend you read this blog post - http://www.slybaldguys.com/serendipity/archives/75-The-Game-Penetrating-the-Secret-Society-of-Pick-Up-Artists-by-Neil-Strauss.html

Also, you should go buy a book called To Be, or Not Be Intimidated: That is the question, by Robert Ringer.

Why do I suggest these books?  I think they will help you with your confidence.  The reality is that your appearance (not looks) are directly affected by your confidence.  The more confident you are, the better appearance you will have.   For example, if you're bald but have a lot of confidence you're going to score with more chicks and be looked up to more than if you had a full head of hair and no confidence at all. 

          There's Tyler.... handing out great advice yet again.........

[bulls_fan]

what's up bud. I'm just a year older than you so i know how freaked out it can get you. But i say if you're hairline looks like that pic try shaving it off. not all the way. use a number 4 or something on the buzzer and just see what you think. it'll grow back if you don't like it. and besides you can worry about it once it does start goin, if it ever does. don't fret too much over it. i used to think my hair defined how i was. turns out that's not the case at all. it's nothin but hair. and all in how you carry yourself.

[mojim]

Your toast Dude!!!

Just kidding you have a long way to go before you have to worry too much about it..
But guys go Sly just for the look..(baldandre 13 years)
So you have a choice for quite a few years, don't sweat it..