I really want to shave my head, but I'm nervous about other peoples reactions.
Have you guys found that it is better to shave your head without telling anyone or to let a few close friends know before you do it.
I feel like it would be easier to deal with this in the summer when I'm home
but I'm not sure if I can wait that long, I'm going crazy
Also, what should I tell people when they ask me why I shaved my head
and how do you deal with negative comments.
My confidence is pretty low as it is. I don't want it to get any lower.
Hey Guys, now is the second night I can't get any sleep because I feel so depressed about my hair loss. Even with hair I never have been really happy with my face and my big forehead and when I get bald I fear it will look even bigger. At the moment I can't imagine getting any self-esteem soon and I tell myself things like: when I am bald everyone will notice how unhappy I am with myself and then they will also feel that I am somebody to pity and people will reject me and this will make it even harder to build self-esteem and I feel like I will always have to feel inferior compared to other people - man, I am really depressed. I think the thing is I never have been really happy with myself but I had the hope that different hairstyles will give me a chance to feel better, but when I am bald there is no hope and I will always have to stick with what I've got - hm, I think I am just really anxious and in denial now, because I always had attractive girlfriends which thought I am attractive, but with hair. A the moment I don't know how I could ever accept this, but in the end, what chances do I have?
Quote from: Frontier Guy on February 18, 2013, 05:06:36 AMThings I think you will find:Huge relief (part 1) from hair worries – whether it’s thinning or graying or moving hairlines.Huge relief (part 2) from hat worries (this may not apply) – where is it? Huge relief (part 3) from weather worries (this also may not apply yet) – wind which may blow a combover the wrong way, rain which causes thin hair to become stringy. Ease of maintaining - you'll always have the same great look. Surge of self-confidence (part 1) – which I thought was most surprising. Surge of self-confidence (part 2) – freedom to do things which “hair terror” prevented – like swimming or standing in a room underneath a bright light with your scalp glowing through the remaining hairs. Reallocation of time previously spent obsessing over hair to more fun endeavors (you can figure out this list on your own). although I didn't believe that those points would be true for me I can approve them now. It took me about a week to get used to my new looks - so take some time and don't rush things - if there is no reason to shave and you find out that you are happy with your new haircut keep it that way - try the 30 days rule because from my experience I can say that in the first week I went through a lots of feelings about my new haircut and now 3 weeks in I am really happy with it
Things I think you will find:Huge relief (part 1) from hair worries – whether it’s thinning or graying or moving hairlines.Huge relief (part 2) from hat worries (this may not apply) – where is it? Huge relief (part 3) from weather worries (this also may not apply yet) – wind which may blow a combover the wrong way, rain which causes thin hair to become stringy. Ease of maintaining - you'll always have the same great look. Surge of self-confidence (part 1) – which I thought was most surprising. Surge of self-confidence (part 2) – freedom to do things which “hair terror” prevented – like swimming or standing in a room underneath a bright light with your scalp glowing through the remaining hairs. Reallocation of time previously spent obsessing over hair to more fun endeavors (you can figure out this list on your own).