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SOS I suffer a great deal!
D.A.L.U.I.:
--- Quote from: Argyle on April 27, 2010, 10:02:33 AM ---I love this place and actually think that if and when i come out of this positively i will have a lot to impart on others who go through the same thing. I plane on being around for a long time this is the best bunch of guys on the web.
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You'll get through it, since you've been in the sessions you know the work ahead, and you can do it. The prize is just too great not to get the ball to the goal post.
Argyle:
Yep indeed.
Also Fred.I meant to mention that I met my current wife when I was 27 and I was largely bald by then. She said she never minded and actually liked the look. I think she is the most beautiful woman alive.
As an aside, I was at a conference today. As you will probably know one of the symptoms of BDD is comparing yourself to others. I do that a lot!! Anyway I was sitting in a dull breakout session with about 50 people 90% of them women (I work in childrens social care so am in the minority). I was looking and thinking I wonder who at first glance I would immediately attractive. There was 1 person. Ironically though I was sitting next to a woman who I have met before at a previous event. She was very normal looking and if I am honest and with a deeply critical eye she had a huge nose. Yet during our conversation (dont tell my wife) I thought she was sexy as hell. Intelligent, funny, engaging, had I been single I would have happily met her for a drink yet at first glance she didnt catch my eye.
marcx:
Very brave to sharere..and I think it's great to see ll the support that is coming out! Truly this is a case of your mind making mountains out of moleholes! There is nothing wring with the way you look at all!
That being said...I think the truth is that we can all tell you that from here until tomorrow but there are issues preventing you from hearing it. I hope the professional you are seeing can help you with that end of things!
pdxtodd:
Argyle when I saw the pictures I thought the two of you could have come straight off the pages of a magazine. Both you and Fred are great looking guys.
Argyle:
PDX.....are you flirting with me? :D
Thanks in seriousness for the comments. I think one of the transitions I have struggled to make since going sly is that i dont see myself as a bald guy I see myself as a guy with some hair odd eh?
But we will get there for sure.
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