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I lack confidence with women

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Tyler:
I echo what Bartman says about the Mystery Method .

What I want to touch on will add to it.  Look at the things you do well and focus on being in social setting (that contain women) where you can focus on doing those things.  For example, a buddy of mine is really good at singing karaoke and will go out often to show off his skills.  He has met more woman doing karaoke which for me would be the last place I tried, but it works for him because he's confident doing it. 

Before getting married I used to meet a ton of women while at the gym/racket club.  The reason for this is that I played racquetball and I was really good at it; usually the top player or close to it.  This allowed me to shine over others (or peacock as said in the Mystery Method) and stand out.  My confidence was at an all time high in this setting.   

I think you get my point that it's best to work on meeting women in setting that you feel comfortable and can shine in.

Like Bartman said, the MAIN thing you need to meet a woman is confidence.  Being nice, kind, chivalrous, will help in the long run if you get in a relationship, but doesn't help in meeting women.  It's all about confidence; even fake confidence. 

Mikekoz13:
Fred-

The first thing you need to do is look in the mirror and throw that "I'm nerdy, I'm unusual" attitude out the window. Women love guys that are different, funny, and confident.
Your eclectic taste will make you VERY attractive to a lot of women. You look like a nice looking guy and by the posts you've made on here you seem like a genuine and good guy. Again, things that women like.
Also..... and to me this is one of the keys to meeting women...... women love to be pursued..... it makes them feel good about themselves to know they are wanted.

Remember also that rejection is a part of dating. So don't get down or give up if you are turned down. Just move on.

Look at my avatar.... I'm on the right. Not exactly the world's best looking guy. But when I dated I always had beautiful girlfriends/dates. When my friends would ask me how I always got such great looking women to go out with me I gave them this very simple answer.

"I just asked".

I can't even begin to tell you how many great looking and nice women over the years told me they didn't date much because guys never asked them out. It's kind of the "squeaky wheel gets the grease" thing...... be that squeaky wheel.

Stand tall, be confident, laugh, and simply ask.............

baldtribesman:
Thank you guys for your advise I need to hear this, I encourage you all to put your two cents in and tell me I need the pep talk.

Sly rules,'

Fred

Sly Red:
Get yourself a gay wingman.  We're chick magnets, much like cute dogs.  :*))

Red

Morthen:
I'm no expert and im pretty young, but with my experience all I have ever had to do is be honest, and be myself. So you could always try that :D

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