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I lack confidence with women
pdxtodd:
I would bet that there are dozens of available women in your home town who are interested in exactly the same things that you are and who are also shy about making that first move. In fact, to use the Men's Warehouse CEO's phrase "I guarantee it". My suggestion - post an ad on Craigslist - focusing on the things that you like to do - and I would bet that within a week you have a date!
I too was shy around women -- I've always had success in finding dates by focusing on groups that do things that I like to do. You don't have to be a manimal.
mangosink12572:
Fred - - -I will let you know when we go on the next cruise - -and you will go with us - - -as you know - you live close enough to walk to the ship - - -
Richard
aarrggh:
--- Quote from: SimplyRed on February 25, 2010, 08:06:23 AM ---Get yourself a gay wingman. We're chick magnets, much like cute dogs. :*))
Red
--- End quote ---
Your crackin me up Red :*)) :*)) :*))
Polarbear:
I agree with Bartman and Simply Red!
I've read "The Game" by Neil Strauss. It describes the "Mystery Method" and more. Mystery was a social outcast until he decided to test seduction methods and write them down on a forum just like this this, but about picking up women. It is a very well known book, written for shy guys like you and me about the art of seducing women.
It is a very good book, an amazing and also funny story and it doesn't make you feel sorry about yourself, but will give you an eye opener, thinking while reading the book: "So that's how it's done"
Nowadays, I don't have to think about the methods: most of it will go auto pilot. In fact, that is the goal of the book after all.
And you have to have your gay wingman haha. My brother is gay. They somehow have magical skills with women because they don't have the tension that we feel.
Good luck!
Arnie:
Your the guy...so think about it, they are waiting for you...seriously!!!
Don't be discouraged if someone turns you down...simply tell yourself...NEXT!!!
You will be fine!!! O0
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