Having spent long hours in the gym, (not because I wanted to) I have seen all kinds of guys get shot down! Let the gym relationship grow first, just have keep saying hello and being polite every time you are there. Let her get used to you not being a creep and she may ask you out! If she talks to you at the gym, than you could be in luck, most gals put up the deflector shields in the parking lot! Good luck!
Quote from: The Anvil on September 14, 2008, 08:13:08 AMHaving spent long hours in the gym, (not because I wanted to) I have seen all kinds of guys get shot down! Let the gym relationship grow first, just have keep saying hello and being polite every time you are there. Let her get used to you not being a creep and she may ask you out! If she talks to you at the gym, than you could be in luck, most gals put up the deflector shields in the parking lot! Good luck! Anvil is right the only way I could see it working in the gym is to really make it seem like your not interested in dating, but demonstrate a higher value to her and then she'll come after you. Women but up big walls when they go to the gym because every musclehead there is trying to cram them.
LOL anvil....you sure you have never used that tactic???
That's not a bad idea, actually.Yesterday was my second day at the gym, and this one girl definitely caught my eye. She even came over to ask me about this one exercise I was doing and what it muscles it helped with. So I just explained it to her and didn't make a move or anything, but I figure next time I see her, I'll just smile and say hi and see how she reacts. Hopefully she works out at the same time I do.
Quote from: BlackJamesRackham on September 04, 2008, 09:25:25 AMThat's not a bad idea, actually.Yesterday was my second day at the gym, and this one girl definitely caught my eye. She even came over to ask me about this one exercise I was doing and what it muscles it helped with. So I just explained it to her and didn't make a move or anything, but I figure next time I see her, I'll just smile and say hi and see how she reacts. Hopefully she works out at the same time I do.First- Anytime your asked what muscles your exercise helps, tell her its the muscles in your pelvic area.. no matter what exercise your doing. Then tell her it helps with your stamina, that you can go at it like a rabbit for hours!The explain how having a partner can have a mutual benifit and ask if she might be game one night! Approaching- don't! Its better to just grab a dumbell, walk behind the treadmill she is running on and do some curls while you stare straight at her a$$ and moan - not groan- in ectasy on every curl. Anvil- You forgot the duct tape in case she tries to pepper spray you
Approaching- don't! Its better to just grab a dumbell, walk behind the treadmill she is running on and do some curls while you stare straight at her a$$ and moan - not groan- in ectasy on every curl.
QuoteApproaching- don't! Its better to just grab a dumbell, walk behind the treadmill she is running on and do some curls while you stare straight at her a$$ and moan - not groan- in ectasy on every curl. Hopefully someone will open a new gym near me soon since those other jerks won't let me in theirs anymore.