Many women walk all over nice guys. They keep them as the "reserve guy" like a "just in case things dont work out with the jerks I am screwing, I can always fall back on (insert nice guys name here). I have heard them cackle about it and discuss the lack of challenge.Nice guys finish last... although they finish with a soul.
Quote from: Marz on July 14, 2008, 03:12:32 PMMany women walk all over nice guys. They keep them as the "reserve guy" like a "just in case things dont work out with the jerks I am screwing, I can always fall back on (insert nice guys name here). I have heard them cackle about it and discuss the lack of challenge.Nice guys finish last... although they finish with a soul. Forget that at your peril.To women there are "casual sex guys" and "relationship guys". If you're pegged as the latter you may think you "got the girl", but the truth is: you'll be staying home taking care of the kids while she's out getting her garden plowed when she's supposed to be out with the girls on "Ladies Night Out". If you're OK with that, great.
What can I say........I'll always be brutally honest and I would want my friends to be the same way!!!! You wouldn't let your friend walk into a bar with a Boggie hanging out their nose would you!?!
Quote from: HotCajun on October 03, 2007, 11:33:47 AMWhat can I say........I'll always be brutally honest and I would want my friends to be the same way!!!! You wouldn't let your friend walk into a bar with a Boggie hanging out their nose would you!?!I would, and then I would try to get them to talk to a nice looking girl! (is that bad?)
1) I think one of my biggest problems is that in responses to girls, I generally put a disclaimer that I'm going bald and I can't expect them to overcome a lack of physical attraction, because I don't believe anyone should be expected to do that. I figure that the disclaimer would weed out girls with any doubt, because I'm actually looking for a relationship, not casual dating. I'm looking for someone who is sure she likes me for me. Is this disclaimer a bad idea?2) Have any other guys here dealt with trying to date while balding at such a young age? I'm dying here.3) (optional) Can anyone, in an unbiased fashion, conclude that going Sly is the only way? It's not really something I want right now.
Quote from: Lex Luethor on September 07, 2008, 04:30:00 PMQuote from: Marz on July 14, 2008, 03:12:32 PMMany women walk all over nice guys. They keep them as the "reserve guy" like a "just in case things dont work out with the jerks I am screwing, I can always fall back on (insert nice guys name here). I have heard them cackle about it and discuss the lack of challenge.Nice guys finish last... although they finish with a soul. Forget that at your peril.To women there are "casual sex guys" and "relationship guys". If you're pegged as the latter you may think you "got the girl", but the truth is: you'll be staying home taking care of the kids while she's out getting her garden plowed when she's supposed to be out with the girls on "Ladies Night Out". If you're OK with that, great. Well hmmm, I am a nice guy and enjoy working the garden with many hoes.... I must be special..... lol