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Offline Michael

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Putting my dog to sleep
« on: February 12, 2009, 01:50:07 PM »
I found out two days ago that my 13 year old boxer has late stage heart failure.  She has been drastically deteriorating this week, and we have made the difficult choice of having to put her to sleep tomorrow (Friday).  It sucks! She's  MY dog, not the families, and it just sucks!  She's had a good life, she's been a wonderful pet, but her time has come.

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Re: Putting my dog to sleep
« Reply #1 on: February 12, 2009, 01:57:50 PM »
Michael-

I had to put MY most beloved Greyhound, Lager, down two years ago this week. It was one of the most painful things i've ever had to do. He was a good old boy that I had for nine amazing years but when he got bone cancer I refused to let him suffer so I could have him longer.

I held him very close as the doctor administered the meds, and I spoke softly into his ear telling him how much I loved him. I gently laid him down and sat with him for a few minutes alone before I left him.

It was a terrible experience but one that we sometimes have to do as pet owners if we really love them.

Good luck tomorrow Michael and please know that at least one SBG will have you in his prayers.

I remember Lager all the time and think about how when he was a younger hound I took him everywhere with me. We shared a lot of cheeseburgers together over the years.
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Re: Putting my dog to sleep
« Reply #2 on: February 12, 2009, 02:03:44 PM »
Thanks Mike.... thoughts and prayers appreciated!
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Re: Putting my dog to sleep
« Reply #3 on: February 12, 2009, 02:06:15 PM »
thats sad  :'(. both your stories.

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Re: Putting my dog to sleep
« Reply #4 on: February 12, 2009, 02:49:02 PM »
MICHAEL, very sorry to hear about your dog, I  have a dog and it would be terrible to lose him. They are a part of the family and we grow very attached to them. You  and your dog are in my prayers    GOD BLESS!

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Re: Putting my dog to sleep
« Reply #5 on: February 12, 2009, 02:51:16 PM »
Mike, my heart goes out to you bro.  I have had to have two pets put to sleep over the years and it doesn't get easier.  They are our companions and members of the family.  My prayers out to you for support at this time.  
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Re: Putting my dog to sleep
« Reply #6 on: February 12, 2009, 03:03:43 PM »
This is just awful. Feelin it for you m8  :(
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Re: Putting my dog to sleep
« Reply #7 on: February 12, 2009, 03:47:29 PM »
Hey Michael,

Man I am really, really sorry for what is happening in your life. We have lost several pets and I understand how attached you can get to them. My prayers for what is going on with your wife as well.

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Re: Putting my dog to sleep
« Reply #8 on: February 12, 2009, 03:50:00 PM »
By the way..its not "retarded" to share with others on here. I have shared some really personal stuff on here that I would not tell anyone else. So its a safe environment my friend.

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Re: Putting my dog to sleep
« Reply #9 on: February 12, 2009, 04:07:52 PM »
Sorry to hear that, Michael.  I'll keep you and your family in my prayers.
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Re: Putting my dog to sleep
« Reply #10 on: February 12, 2009, 04:28:42 PM »
Hang in there bro. You are in my prayers.
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Re: Putting my dog to sleep
« Reply #11 on: February 12, 2009, 04:29:07 PM »
Michael ~  I'm saddened to hear it's time to put your old buddy to sleep.  Those who've never experienced this don't fully understand.  I certainly do -- I've been there with our beloved Basenji and it IS very difficult even though you know you're doing the right thing.  

Remind yourself that this is the last kind act you can do for your old buddy, after years of you looking out for him and him giving back all that unconditional love.  With time, the memories will ease the emptiness.  Hang in there.    

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Re: Putting my dog to sleep
« Reply #12 on: February 12, 2009, 04:39:14 PM »
Michael,
I am saddened to hear of the loss of your dog and your wife's condition. As one Nor Cal SBG to another, you're in my prayers.

I actually took my dog for a 5 mile walk earlier today before reading your post and then posted this after the walk...I can only imagine how lonely my walk would have been without my Miko.

Hang in There.
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ps - agreed, it's not retarded to share with the SBG crew.


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Re: Putting my dog to sleep
« Reply #13 on: February 12, 2009, 04:58:58 PM »
I am sorry to hear about the dog and your wife. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

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Re: Putting my dog to sleep
« Reply #14 on: February 12, 2009, 05:19:35 PM »
Very sorry to hear about both situations. I had two very good dogs pass within about a year and a half. One I had to put to sleep and the other just passed overnight out of nowhere. I miss both dogs very dearly, they were great watch dogs and awesome family pets
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