Hey, thanks for the responses, guys! Sorry I didn't get back here sooner, but things have been a bit crazy,
@brkeatr, yes, those glasses are vintage 1991, and they suck. I have a prescription for some new ones (bi-focals no less

), and I have been looking at frames. Thanks for the advice about going smaller.
Well, after the passage of some time, I look at the photos now and realize I really don't look that bad, I found the color balance on my camera is a bit off, and that is what is making my skin look so pale. Also I found that my back yard has better lighting (and is a lot closer, too).
I blew up one of the pictures really large, and noticed a bunch of flaky dead skin and other crud on my scalp. Getting rid of that stuff would make me look a lot better, I'm sure. I've heard a lot of sly guys use aloe vera, would that help?
Lastly, I am still taking pictures of myself while letting my hair grow out, and the results are shocking! Not only have I lost all the hair on the top of my head, but the back and sides are really thin as well. It may well be that the bald look is the best look for me after all. To paraphrase the Irish woman in the movie about the Dorsey Bros. (can't remember the name): There's only one thing worse than being bald. And that's not being bald!