Irish, Sorry to hear about your problem. Coming from someone that has been sly for over 12 years and being african american (notorious for ingrown hairs) I feel and know your problem and your pain. The only three products I have used consistently, up until last week were, the original High Time Bump Stopper, High Time Bump Stopper-2 Double Strength, and Bump Patrol Razor Bump Solution Original and Sensitive Formula.
My first shave I used a disposible BIC, the old school white one with the yellow head (single blade) and some generic barbosol shaving cream. I had no idea what I was doing. So going by what I had seen on TV I took some clippers ran them right down the middle of my head so there was no turning back. I got my hair down as low as it would go. I lathered up and starting from my neckline I went directly against the grain, on the top and side I did the same thing (against the grain). Amazingly I don't recall cutting or nicking myself but when I was done it felt like my head was one fire......hmmmm could that have been all the alcohol I applied, or just the feeling of tiny little hairs trapped under the skin for the first time???!! Long story short over the next two days the back of my head, the side around my ears, on the sides and back of my head (where the shadow is most prevelant), and both sides of my neckline became inflamed with ingrown hairs. I was in pain, my head looked and felt horrible, and I was a new transfer student at a new college. Lets just say I wore a ball cap or doo rag 24/7. The Bump Stopper was the first product I could find and I used it and alcohol religiously. Washing and cleasing several times a day and re-applying the bumpstopper every time.
I begain using the original Bump Stopper products, which I believe is what you are using, from the very first time a razor touched my scalp. It was the only thing I could find in the stores at the time. It helped to sooth the irritation but took a least two-three weeks before I saw any real benefit (Going from memory and the horror I went through after my first head shaving experience). Luckily I had a girl friend that did care about my appearance and did everything she could to help, including spending hours while watching tv, studying, or before bed lifting out each individual hair with a safety pin. Lifting up the ingrown hairs from under the skin, lots of witchhazel, alcohol, and the bumpstopper and eventually things calmed down. But keep in mind I continued to shave and continued to have ingrown hairs and bumps, it was like a never ending cycle. I still have the scars on my neckline and on the sides to this day. After the first few times I stop shaving against the grain and found out that was the main problem. I wanted the clean shave, but didn't want to continue to endure the pain of a head covered with ingrown hairs. So I dealt with a little fuzz and the shadow in an attempt to allow the ingrown hairs and associated bumps to clear up.
Fast forward 2 years I upgraded to bump stopper 2, worked much faster than the original bumpstopper and works by drying out the skin. Almost makes the bumps scab over. It still takes about 1 week to take full effect.(Still in combination with witchhazel, alcohol, and a good woman to pick bumps). Two years later I found Bump Patrol Razor Bump Solution Sensitive Formula!!!! It was the truth. Works fast and very similar to the bumpstopper but in a liquid form. Smells horrible, my wife can't stand it, but it works in about 2-3 days. It also dries out the bumps and allows for easy picking. Now some where along the line I started using the Mach 3, almost immediately when it came out, and the same thing with the fusion. The Fusion is my razor of choice today.
One of the key issues in my case was shaving against the grain. As long as I shave with the grain I can ultimately avoid a manifistation of ingrown hairs. I will still get the occasional few at the side of my neckline, but those aren't that serious. The second most important thing in my case was having someone to lift the hairs from beneath the skin. That combination with a good bump fighter has helped my to avoid the horrors of my first shave. I have religiously used a combination of the bumpstopper 2 and Bump Patrol for almost 6 years now (my account of exact time may be a bit skewed, but you get the picture). Every once and a while my memory goes bad and I think I want to get that glass smooth shave to eliminate my shadow, and everytime I have to deal with an abundance of ingrown hairs, and the nasty bumps that accompany them, on the back and sides of my head. The last serious breakout occured right before I joined this forum. The combination of the bumpstopper 2 and bump patrol AFTER I shaved, my wife picking bumps every night, and not shaving for 2 days got rid of the bumps fairly quickly. I'd say ingrown hair and bump free within about a week.
So if I could offer you any advice it would be to stop shaving against the grain, apply the bump fighter(bumpstopper 2 and/or bump patrol) AFTER your shave, putting them on before and then putting a razor to your scalp may be causing some irritation. Cut back on the alcohol and focus on witchhazel (I found too much alcohol irritated my scalp as well). Get you a shaving oil, I recently started using "shavers secret", and absolutely love it. And if you have someone near and dear to ya have them pick your bumps. You'll need to go at least 1-2 days without shaving to allow the hairs to grow out enough to be able to lift them up, plus it gives your irritated noggin time to recoperate. Its time consuming, frustrating, and if you've got the nice juicy bumps growing over the embedded hairs, it might even be a little nasty or disgusting, but in my case it is essential to ridding yourself of ingrown hairs and the razor bumps that grow over them. You have to get the hairs from under the skin!! I'm not sure of the scientific difference betwen razor bumps and ingrown hair bumps or if there is a difference, but my experience is that beneath every nasty little bump there is a hair in some case very long hair trapped under the skin.
You should be able to order any of the products from Walgreens, not sure if they ship overseas. Check out the links below
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Bump PatrolBumpstopper 2I just started using this stuff
ScalpDoctor....to try something different (This site makes ya do that you know). But I have no clue how it will do in the long run. My initial reaction is that its soothing, smells nice, and has prevented any bumps, but I've only been using it for 3 days with a new Schick Quattro titanium with clippers, but I'll save those reviews for later.
Sorry for the LOOOOOOONNNG post hope it helps.
Gotta get back to work.....Oh and wheres the spell check......