Tucker, long time no chat. In all honesty, I think you might have been too nice of a guy (as strange as that may seem). She took advantage of the fact "Hey, Tucker will always be there for me, I'll go do something else this Friday night" (or whatever event was at hand). Trust me, I've been there.

Women are odd creatures, proceed with caution....you might end up marrying one.

You are 100% right sir!

Dude you are being too nice man!! You have always been there for her and never left her to wonder and think. I bet that dude she still calims to love is a "bad  boy". The whole nice guy thing only goes so far with chicks. You have to leave them thinking about you a little. I used to be the nice guy and let chicks walk all over me. I got cheated on one time by a girl who I was soooo in love with. From that point on I started living for me, not women in my life. I got a girl right now who wants me to grow my hair back..when she starts kicking up about it I tell her to get lost. Its cuz I dont care!! Thats the attitude you need to take. PLease take my advice and read anything by David DeAngelo. It will change the way u talk and deal with women. -

Yep bro...she's taking you for granted!

I think she does like you and because you are so available she doesn't feel a challenge or possible drama...

and sorry to say this, at your age it's ingrained you must have drama to have a "real relationship"..you know Laguna Beach or the Hills...girls feed off it and you are only giving her good times and something very comfortable...

not cool when you're young and dating...lame I know...your relationship sounds awesome for most people over ,d@mn this is funny saying this...20!

You probably ARE perfect for each other...but have met too young and at the wrong time on your life bro...

You may get her...but me thinks not right now ...sorry bro...

but you're a cool, confident dude with a great sense when it comes to hairstyle selection...you should NOT be bummed being as confident as you are..

Just go have fun this summer and check in with her once a week...I'm sure some other hotties will dig your shiny bald head bro! ...and stick with the spinning class....hotties love to sweat!

Good luck !

So here's what I'm planning on doing: Not go for the bfgf stuff. Just be her friend. be there for her but at a distance. not make any moves. call her every once in a while. invite her to hang out but not really care if she comes or not.

One friend gave me advice to give her space and she'll start to miss me and stuff... thats what I'm going to go for.

Awesome bro...just remember (and this one will be tough), have fun this summer and try to meet some girls if that's what you want to do...but here's the tough part...DO NOT feel like you are cheating on her if you meet a nice little hottie you want to get with...

sounds obvious and ya duh, she's not your girlfriend...but that feeling will kick in...DON'T let it bro!!!!

Now go have some fun bro...and quit wasting your time hanging out with a bunch of bald dudes!

Tucker-40, you got some great advice from some of the most righteous dudes on the planet. Take it and make it your own and let us know how it goes.

Many of us have been there.

Yeah, we're pretty damn cool. 

WoW!! you guys - I'm totally in awe of y'all, that was some great advice you've given 
This is just another reason why I love you all so much, for the camaraderie and
support that goes on in this forum.

You are a totally amazing bunch of fellas and I'm so proud to be able to call you my friends.
I know I'm gushing but just,  again...wow!     

tucker... good luck mate. 

Likewise to you and all the guys..

great people, great group!

D@mn...and I'm not even drunk!!

friend zone, bro. next time hold off on the flowers and parent smooching and all-expense paid hangouts til after you're already gettin' a piece. otherwise you're setting yourself up for massive disappointment and an empty wallet

Good luck whichever way you decide to go.

My son has Asperger's Syndrome.  I'm pretty borderline in this area myself (way beyond the border according to my wife).  I find social situations quite stressful at times.
 
Don't listen to any relationship advice that I offer.