Thomas is my daughters BF, and they live out in California well away from me.... lucky for him, because he doesn't treat my oldest daughter Shauna very well. He barks, she does so to speak... he degrades her, she cry's and then I get e-mails. I did advise him once that I could reach out from Montana real quick if he doesn't straighten his act out.
Anyway.. the wife bought me a bunch of "Tootsie Pops" yesterday..... and last night, she actually said.... "You really look dam good and tempting that way"

and then said, "I never thought you would ever consider doing that, but glad you did"
Dam I should have done this sooner.....
I told her, with most of the guys I guess its a fear thing, the unknown of reactions etc.... that is why I think alot of guy's butch themselves, and then chicken out shaving the head.
My wife added that 25 yrs ago when I married her, if I had the Sly Guy look then, instead of a floral bouquet, she would have had one done in ....... you guessed it, "Tootsie Pops"