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Shave it yesterday! While on my travels by AbidingPlanet on 19 Dec, 2012 23:08
Well hello there!

So...been noticing the crown of my head started going bald about 3 or so years ago... A few others had noticed to but I probably have a few more years where I could get away with not shaving but definitely starting to think more on top as well and I have been self conscious of it and very aware, and have not felt good about it to say the least.

Ever since I found out it was happening I wanted to try and embrace. I have toyed with the idea of shaving for sometime but knowing that it would be so white etc., and the bit of a shock with my work place I hadn't. I'm traveling in Thailand for he next 18 days so I thought why not! See what it is like. I had a lady take it off with a razor in Chiang Mai yesterday then had a mask and face massage for an additional $10.

Kind of traumatic for me but in kind of liking it. I travel solo, 30 years old think I've gotten a few odd stares...but don't know if that's just me ruby self conscious .

I would really like to feel happy and comfortable with this. I usually considered myself a pretty good looking guy with hair but maybe age and stress has taken a bit of a toll!

Anyway came across the site and thought it would be nice to talk with others:)

All the best and happy holidays to all!
#1 by Lynchy on 20 Dec, 2012 01:16
Welcome mate,

Where are you from?

Don't worry, the stares are just your subconscious messing with you. I'm sure the bald look is good one on you.

Hopefully your colleagues embrace your new look.

Cheers
#2 by Frontier Guy on 20 Dec, 2012 04:10
Welcome.

The stares - if genuine - are only because they've never seen such a fine example of a shaved head. Enjoy the attention!

You've been given the perfect opportunity to perfect Slyness - a couple of weeks away from home to get used to the look, get some color, and prepare for the "oohs and aahs" when your usual circle of friends see the New You.

I suggest you commit to the 30-day challenge referenced elsewhere on this site. Which basically says:
* Maintain the Sly look for 30 consecutive days - whether you shave daily (my recommendation) or every other day
* Allows you to get used to the New & Improved you.
* Allows others to get used to the New, Improve and more Confident you.
* Allows your scalp to adjust from being hidden from the world to toughening up to face the world.
* Allows you to develop the skills for head shaving (they're a bit different)
* Gives you time to integrate shaving into your daily routine.

Things I think you will find:
* Huge relief from hair worries
* Ease of maintaining - you'll always look the same
* Surge of self-confidence
* Reallocation of time previously spent obsessing over hair to more fun endeavors.

Welcome to the brotherhood.
#3 by tomgallagher on 20 Dec, 2012 05:03
Welcome to the group.

#4 by Sir Harry on 20 Dec, 2012 08:11
Welcome aboard!
#5 by mangosink12572 on 20 Dec, 2012 09:09
Post a photo when you get a chance - -You are selfconscious right now you will get over it - - -enjoy it - - -Nothing like being SLY BALD.
#6 by Switchy on 20 Dec, 2012 09:58
Welcome !
#7 by Andrei on 20 Dec, 2012 11:50
Welcome,
I think balding is genetic so it's not much what you could have done to prevent it.
Enjoy your new look!
#8 by nuts on 20 Dec, 2012 11:54
Frontier Guy's summation of the 30 day rule and benefits of shaving are succinct and should be given to all men contemplating shaving their heads.
#9 by OzSly on 20 Dec, 2012 14:40
G'Day & welcome to Sly Bald Guys mate,

Enjoy your trip to Thailand the Spiritual home of the big kahuna, the número uno, of Slyness...BUDDHA!!!
#10 by AbidingPlanet on 21 Dec, 2012 01:28
Thank you guys all so much for taking the time to make me feel welcome. Was quite feeling the look yesterday! Especially now that the weather is quite hot too...

The 30 day challenge...I just got my head razored again today:) this time however the experience was t so smooth. The lady that did it first really took her time..no cuts what so ever, felt totally fine. The time around.. Was in and in under 10 minutes in pain and blood. She had to get a cold towel and I had it one for about 10 minutes. I was quite dissapointed. They say the razor was new..so hopefully I won't catch anything as I was a little concerned about that as well with all the small Knicks. When I go back tomorrow I'm going to have the original lady that did it do it again..

Anyway, thanks again for the wishes...slyness will be living strong over here in Chiang Mai:)!
#11 by AbidingPlanet on 21 Dec, 2012 01:30
And yes happy to post a pic as soon as I can. Only working from my iPhone here..so don't think allows but I will as soon as able!

#12 by AbidingPlanet on 21 Dec, 2012 02:01
I posted a pic, nice to meet you all:)! sorry it's side ways, working with limited computer access and couldn't manage to adjust.

My head has some small cuts on it due to the shave I recieved. I was thinking about putting coconut oil on it as I have some available to me.
#13 by Frontier Guy on 21 Dec, 2012 04:06
Abiding ... you are well-suited to the Sly look.

It will take a little time for your scalp to toughen a bit and become more resistant to nicks and such.

You may want to take over the razoring duties yourself - then you can take your time to go slowly and learn the subtle changes in your scalp's terrain. Also, it's just a great experience. Most of the guys here report they get a better shave when they do it themselves - though having it done my someone is an occasional treat. {For me, the first couple weeks of shaving required about 30 minutes each time.}

I'm glad you are enjoying the Sly life.
#14 by mrzed on 21 Dec, 2012 04:39
i visited chiang mai several years ago. was buzzing my head at the time. fun city to visit.

enjoy your bald head. it looks god on you. the sun there should give you some color quickly.

welcome to being sly. may you keep it for life.