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People and comments
by
wonderer
on 23 Jul, 2012 23:21
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Hi Guys !I noticed that some people (in my life )think that they are helping with their comments but they are doing just the opposite for example one one lady asked me why am i grieving and shaving head ,then on other occasion my aunt told me the same-his is started to be annoying so you see guys here is not a problem of skinhead image just the opposite- somebody thinks that he have a right to tell me who i am through the way i look ,it's a shame how people can be shallow like a shallow plate ....
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#1
by
Frontier Guy
on 24 Jul, 2012 02:35
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It happens. Some people just don't have the common sense and good manners to mind their own business.
You just need to have the confidence in yourself and your decision (as we all do) to ignore them. Wear the shaved look proudly and with confidence and move forward. Work on that and the comments will be fewer. They will also be less as more people become accustomed to the "new and improved" you.
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#2
by
tomgallagher
on 24 Jul, 2012 05:56
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Human nature. People just can't mind their own business.
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#3
by
RoWilJr
on 24 Jul, 2012 05:59
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Human nature. People just can't mind their own business.
This^^^^curiosity killed the cat...ijs
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#4
by
Andrei
on 30 Jul, 2012 02:13
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People always commented and will continue to do so.
Being a new head shaver makes the comments related to the subject to have a greater impact, but time helps.
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#5
by
waine
on 30 Jul, 2012 03:56
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I welcome dumb ass comments; it gives me a chance to reply with an equally stupid comment. Some people have got the mentality of an imbecile when it comes to making remarks about hair, or the lack thereof.
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#6
by
Sir Harry
on 30 Jul, 2012 04:11
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Wonderer....When I weighed 234 pounds, (I weigh 212 now), I used to get jokes all the time such as "When you're expecting?" and "Someone had too many beers". As tempting as it is to get defensive, it's better to just smile and say "Thanks for your concern, but I'm good".....As for smart comments, I'll say it once and I'll say it again "Don't entertain stupidity, let stupidity entertain you!" Stay strong!
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#7
by
wonderer
on 30 Jul, 2012 04:36
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Wise comments guys
,thank you all ...but there is something that affect me in a deeper level - i can't understand how somebody can do something to me that i would never done to anyone- like judge somebody just and only by his look or style (haircut)and truth is that i enjoy being free of hair and scalp dermatitis and jet somebody think that he "know the meaning of my choice for haircut style "in this case sly bald and proud style
--How rude of them
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#8
by
tomgallagher
on 30 Jul, 2012 09:55
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Human Beings have always and will always "judge books by their covers". It's wrong and a deep character flaw of the human race.
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#9
by
Mikekoz13
on 30 Jul, 2012 10:19
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I usually do one of things.
1) Just simply say, "I like being bald. No combs, no shampoo, no hair dryers. I just buff and go." This usually shuts them up.
2) I just stare at them with a look that says "Really? You think that's clever?". There is then usually an uncomfortable silence on their part.
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#10
by
baldjoeg
on 30 Jul, 2012 21:17
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Well said guys.
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#11
by
Hingatao
on 30 Jul, 2012 21:23
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I usually do one of things.
1) Just simply say, "I like being bald. No combs, no shampoo, no hair dryers. I just buff and go." This usually shuts them up.
2) I just stare at them with a look that says "Really? You think that's clever?". There is then usually an uncomfortable silence on their part.
Option two is usually effective. It can be fun watching them squirm!
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#12
by
kalbo
on 31 Jul, 2012 21:22
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As long as you know yourself and stand by what you believe in and do no harm against others, you are the better man.
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#13
by
Paul the Headblader
on 31 Jul, 2012 22:10
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you shall never care about the others. if you do, you reach their goals, not yours.
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#14
by
wonderer
on 31 Jul, 2012 23:39
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Hank you guys again ,very useful comments -Paul -man deep,wise stuff I like it this will be my goal from now
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