Hi, first post here.

So, my hair has been falling out since I was 22, and I'm 27 now. I'm not really sure it's because I'm balding as opposed to bad nutrition .. I don't have the best eating habits. My hairline has receded maybe an inch from where it normally was, and there is some thinning all throughout the middle from the front to the back where there is a small bald spot. The hair on the sides of my head seems to be fine in the sense that it's not coming out. In the thinning areas I can't seem to keep the hair, it usually falls out with a length of about an inch, and I get my hair cut to 1/2 an inch every 6 weeks or so. I've been somewhat conscience about it for a while, in fact I haven't been on a date in a few years ... one girl I asked out actually said she worked in a salon and said I should use Nioxin for better results. It's definitely hurt my confidence in terms of 'was that girl smiling because she thinks I'm hot or because she's laughing at the hair loss?' In either event, I'm ok with shaving it off. Ok as in I don't have a very strong attachment to having thick flowing hair until I'm 50 and it goes grey. If I look better without it then I'm perfectly ok maintaining it indefinitely.

And that brings me to where I am now. I'm graduating college (yea, 5 years behind schedule ...) in three weeks, and the dreaded job hunt will begin. My degree is in statistics, I'm in California, and I have no reason to believe whatever industry I move into will be ultra conservative, but I still hesitate. Does being young and shaving your head send the wrong signal? I don't want to screw myself out of starting my life by sabotaging a job interview because I look like I don't respect the dress code or whatever rationale an interviewer would use against me.

That's the main reason I'm hesitant to take the plunge, but also the main reason I want to. Being out of school and starting a new job gives me a fresh start. If I walk into that interview with a shaved head, nail it, get hired and start work, nobody will know me as that dude with the horrible bald spot and a 4 inch forehead. Other than that, here are some pros and cons:

Pros:

I'll be home for a while and it gives me a chance to try it out to see if I like it or / how I look with it without having to go to class with 90 kids I see every day and know me already.
Very strong chance I would look better
Very strong chance my confidence will go up
No more haircuts!

Cons:

My skin is very pale / white, and I worry how that will look. Almost every bald / shaven guy I've pulls it off well has a tan head that matches their face
If my hair is falling out randomly along the middle, won't that show up in the patterning when it's clean-shaven? As in, the top of my head will be dark in spots with hair and empty in spots where the roots are gone
My mother HATES the idea, and she's a big part of my life
I sunburn very easily, I live in California, and summer is starting.
I have VERY oily skin, and I'm pretty sure my head would be even shinier than 'normal'

With all that said, what do you guys think?

Welcome! First off, congrats on finishing college....I'm going back to college this fall and I will be 42 or 43 when I finish, so finishing at 27 is not too bad....As far as a job goes, most employers are looking for confident, aggressive go-getter type people, hair be damned...There are a lot more sly guys in the workplace today than you think! Women are sometimes like prospective employers...they just want a confident man who doesn't worry about outside forces that he can't control thinning hair being one of those forces...that said, if your (remaining) hair is stopping you from enjoying life and what it has to offer maybe sly can make a difference. Give it a try, and if you don't like it you can always grow it back...(most don't bother). Good luck and keep us posted!

Welcome aboard!

I have oily skin also. When I did have hair, it would be very noticeably oily if I didn't wash at least once a day. Let me assure you that it's not a problem for baldies . It's not like someone's going to mistake your head for a Texas oil field, or anything.   Just keep the scalp clean as you would any other part of your body. My head actually never looks shiny, even when I try to use shine-obtaining tricks, like rubbing it ice cubes after a shave.

It's a big change (going sly), so of course I understand you have reservations about doing it. However, please understand that all you are really fearing is the unknown, which of course is perfectly natural. You've never done this before. It sounds like you want to go for it, so I'm going to push you a bit. Just do it. Dive right in. Bald can be a very clean look, so don't worry about prospective employers. Would you really want to work for the kind of people that would hire you based on your looks anyway?
There's no good reason not to try it at least once. You'll never know unless you take that leap...
Best of luck to you!   And congrats on graduating college!

 I understand your apprehension and it is normal. I had been going bald for over 20 years and finally took the plunge at the encouragement of a friend and my wife. I actually feel less self conscious; and more confident about myself now then with the little hair I had. Hey what could be more crisp and clean cut during an interview then a sly guy. As far as the color difference after shaving... I was pale under the little hair I had left after shaving, I went over the top and used SPF 50 and got NO COLOR AT ALL, went to a 30 and slowly the color is blending in. Hope this helps and Good Luck   

If you're ready to ask the question, it's time to do the deed.

As I've said many times: there's no downside. It grows back quickly in the very unlikely event you decide it's not for you.

Well, some pretty big things happened since my post. I was hanging out with one of my friends last Friday and one thing led to another and SHE asked ME out (haha). We went out yesterday and had a blast and she said she thinks I can pull it off (and I tried on some hats in stores and she said I looked good in all of them), so I've made the decision to do it. Now I just need to wait the two weeks until after graduation ...

I'll keep checking back in and I'll update once I do it! Thanks for the responses

Hey SyZ:  Welcome 2 the sly fraternity.   Glad that ya joined us.  Anytime one has thoughts about shaving their dome than one will never be satisfied until the "deed is done".  Keep us posted 2 your road 2 slyness.

WARHAWK

hey and welcome. 27 is an age that requires changes, good changes.  going bald is one of them. shave it off and feel free.