I want to do it but...(Alopecia Areata) - page 1 -

• I want to do it but...(Alopecia Areata) by arrowface on 01 Mar, 2012 21:12
• Hey guys, first post! My name is Eugene, 23 years old and I've been battling alopecia areata since I was born. For those that don't know what alopecia is, it's a skin condition in which you get spotting where hair falls out and then grows back. I have never ever had side burns nor anything around my ears, and back of the head. My entire life I have been covering it up with long hair and using gel to gel down my hair to make it look like I have a whole head of hair. I feel that I have gotten good at styling my hair to avoid suspicion, to the point where when I mention that I have alopecia to people they are surprised.
  
  I also have to think creatively on an annual basis of how I can cover up my new spots(which range from quarter size to baseball sized bald spots). The thing is I am tired of it. I have to get up an hour earlier before anything just to prep for classes and work. A big part of this is that I am extremely self conscious about people noticing my bald spots, because my child hood was filled with imprinted memories of people ignoring me and treating me as if I was a sick patient. It goes a long way... its a big mental barrier. I've never gotten to go to pool party events, swimming in oceans, go out on windy days without a hat due, etc, because of this mental barrier.
  
  Anyhow I feel that I am on the verge of letting all of it go. The only thing I am worried about now(may not seem like a big deal, I know) is my roots showing selected areas of baldness. I have very thin hair so I am not sure if this may or may not be a problem. I also wanted to mention that if I were to shave it off and didn't like it... It would be hard for me to grow it back without some spotting hair lose just about everywhere on the scalp.
  
  My apologies if this post seems jumbled up. This is my coming out of a dark blockaded closet as I have never mentioned this to anyone, but found the weird courage to post my problem on these forums. What do you guys think?
  
  
• #1 by Razor X on 01 Mar, 2012 21:29
• Go for it. You will feel a lot better when you've freed yourself of the worries associated with your alopecia.
• #2 by Itall on 01 Mar, 2012 21:49
• I agree. No more worries. Liberating.
• #3 by Paul the Headblader on 01 Mar, 2012 22:05
• hello and welcome to SBGs
  go ahead and do it, you'll simply love it, feel so free.
• #4 by TheSlyBear on 01 Mar, 2012 22:37
• No hair == no hair problems
  
  Give it a go!
• #5 by chgobuzzbald on 01 Mar, 2012 22:46
• You are handsome and have beautiful skin and head shape, it will look great !
• #6 by marshd1000 on 02 Mar, 2012 00:15
• I have two friends with your condition.  One older and one younger.  They both shave their heads.  You are fortunate that today is the day of the bald man.  I think that you will do fine.  Since you are a adult you will probably have not problems.  If you you in middle school, I think that you would be in a different situation.
• #7 by arrowface on 02 Mar, 2012 00:38
• Thank you for all of the positive feedback! If I were to shave it clean then I would still have baldspots on my scalp. I feel like my head would look like a outline of the globe(islands of hair). Is there any way I could deal with that?
• #8 by Mikekoz13 on 02 Mar, 2012 05:05
• My 15 year old son has a friend that has battled alopecia his whole life. About a year ago he shaved his head... huge improvement.
  
  If you're even thinking about it, it means it's time to at least try it.
• #9 by D.A.L.U.I. on 02 Mar, 2012 06:44
• There won't be "islands" if you shave consistently--and as the spots move around, only you will notice.  Believe me and the guys here--the only people who'll notice the shadow are other sly guys.  Leave your worries and hair on the floor--shave it off and get on with life. 
• #10 by stasiu on 02 Mar, 2012 06:52
• You are handsome young man that has deep hair related scars but very positive inner strength.  We are here to help you push towards freedom from hair and enjoy your life !  Try sly for 30 days and experience a new you !
• #11 by BaldHDbiker on 02 Mar, 2012 09:21
• Welcome aboard and enjoy. 
  
  As the others have mentioned you would likely be the only one who has any clue about any spots once you start shaving.
  
  Best thing to do is give it a whirl and see how you like it. You won't have any spots on your head anymore that you fell self conscious about.
• #12 by bennett11 on 02 Mar, 2012 09:46
• I agree with others here.   Shaving head is the best solution for you.  Shaved heads are now well accepted. 
• #13 by lordpeich on 03 Mar, 2012 09:46
• I think that you woold look better with a headshave.
• #14 by marty22 on 03 Mar, 2012 11:29
• I agree with lordpeich above. And lordpeich, you do remind me of Derek Jeter *Yankees).