Alright...I know the general consensus is to just approach women and be confident. That all makes sense, but sometimes it isn't that easy.
I'm in college and, being an English Education major, there are plenty of women in my class. I usually have no problem talking to them in class...like normal, joking around, where everyone else in class can hear what I am saying type of stuff. However, there is one girl that I am kind of interested in and I would like to ask her out.
For one, I don't sit next to her in class (and being as the quarter is half over, it would be incredibly weird to just sit next to her now all of a sudden when our seats are basically the same every class as it is). Secondly, I have never talked to her one-on-one. Thirdly, I cannot ask a girl out in class when everyone else is there too (and since we have small classes, they can hear everything). I have thought about trying to talk to her before class, but the class is at least half-full before she shows up and people would eavesdrop if I wanted to ask her out. I could talk to her after class, but she typically hangs out with a friend from the class, and approaching one woman is hard enough (let alone two).
I have added her to facebook and we shared a message, but I am unsure about to go from here.
I am afraid of getting rejected, obviously, but I think I could risk it if I just knew it would be her that would know. If I asked her out in class, the whole class would know the rejection (since we have the smaller class).
What is there to do? Trivial question, probably, but it's confusing for me.