Hey eddie, welcome to SBG's. As you can see from the posts, many guys have been where you are. The best thing you can do is grab the bull by the horns, so to speak.
Take control of the situation and you'll feel better than ever. You can put one worry behind you, and get on with living and enjoying life.
Take it from Kojack, the freedom is exhilarating.

Enjoy the forum, and get it smooth!