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Offline Vash

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« Reply #75 on: September 16, 2008, 04:27:04 AM »
So, as you've noticed, I haven't been around much lately (again!)...

Well, THIS time it's because a little more than a month ago I actually MET the girl I wrote about in the post that started this thread! It's the weirdest freaking thing. She just sort of appeared at work.

She's actually someone I've known in a very passive, regular customer kind of way for about a year. But we went out after work for a drink and kind of started spending all of our free time together for a about 3 weeks. The rest is history. We've been dating for a couple of weeks now (officially) and things couldn't be going better.

I've never gotten along better with anyone I've met. It's kind of crazy, but so far, awesome. I'm still wrapping my head around the idea that a girl 11 years younger (yeah, she's 23, I'm 34) than me is interested in me, but she seems genuine about it. And I'm getting used to it.   ;)

Seriously, I had her read that original post and she was weirded out for a second that I had described her and her views on me so accurately without knowing her. But we're both just going with it.

oh, and she thinks a shaved head is sexy.... who knew? :@`

SO anyway, thanks guys for all your great input and advice about just sticking to being who and what I am. It's not always easy advice to hear or follow, but it certainly seems to have worked. THANK YOU SLY BRUTHAS.

Wish me luck  ^-^

« Last Edit: September 16, 2008, 04:31:24 AM by Vash »
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Re: Getting it off my chest
« Reply #76 on: September 16, 2008, 04:37:23 AM »
That's awesome Vash!!!!   Wish you all the very best.
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Re: Getting it off my chest
« Reply #77 on: September 16, 2008, 05:35:54 AM »
Good luck to you Vash....hope everything goes well !! O0

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Re: Getting it off my chest
« Reply #78 on: September 16, 2008, 06:11:28 AM »
GooD LucK For You m8!  O0 its best feeling in the world when u find "that right one" ,eh?  O:O
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Re: Getting it off my chest
« Reply #79 on: September 16, 2008, 06:13:49 AM »
Woo Hoo!
Congrats dude.

 P@^
Keep us posted!


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Re: Getting it off my chest
« Reply #80 on: September 16, 2008, 06:15:04 AM »
Married here for 29 years. Hang in there Vash. Patience is the key.  BTW-To NOMAD: You look years younger. Whats the secret?

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Re: Getting it off my chest
« Reply #81 on: September 16, 2008, 06:27:57 AM »
See there ya go VASH.....good things come to those who wait.  You have my best wishes.

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Re: Getting it off my chest
« Reply #82 on: September 16, 2008, 08:25:40 AM »
Good news, Vash.
Glad you found someone so you can both be happy together.  Long may it continue!

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Re: Getting it off my chest
« Reply #83 on: September 16, 2008, 09:18:29 AM »
Go VASH!

I've always believed that you have to be happy with who and what you are before others will find you attractive. There IS someone for everyone............
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Re: Getting it off my chest
« Reply #84 on: September 16, 2008, 05:34:47 PM »
...You're a good man who wants a good woman.  Your heart will tell you when the right one comes along.  Just enjoy yourself, and when you least expect it, she will be there!!!
This is one of the few times I don't mind saying this:  TOLD YA SO! ;D

Seriously, Congrats Vash!  I'm very happy for ya Brother!!! O0

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Re: Getting it off my chest
« Reply #85 on: September 16, 2008, 06:17:19 PM »
Congrats, Vash!
This was my first time reading through this entire thread, so I was able to see the story evolve in a matter of minutes.
The loss of our shriner-crust man makes a lot more sense after reading through :)

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Re: Getting it off my chest
« Reply #86 on: September 16, 2008, 08:14:12 PM »
Good luck bro!  Keep us updated
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Re: Getting it off my chest
« Reply #87 on: September 16, 2008, 08:19:21 PM »
Way to go Vash 8) O0 O0 O0
 

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Re: Getting it off my chest
« Reply #88 on: September 17, 2008, 02:27:07 PM »
Good for you, Vash. That's how it goes, usually when we are not expecting it.

Glad to hear you are doing well and you're happy!    O0

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Re: Getting it off my chest
« Reply #89 on: September 17, 2008, 07:44:51 PM »
There IS someone for everyone............
Now thats an interesting thought......

Anyway, congrats Vash. Glad things are going your way  O0
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