Confidence and Success > Relationships/Dating
Getting it off my chest
MagmaBabe:
I want that too.
Tyler:
I do a LOT of what Marz just said. I think the guys that met me this weekend can attest to that.
I was in the the same situation as you and Mike when I met my wife. I vowed no serious girlfriends for 1 year. 6 months later I met my wife, which at that time was the happiest I had ever been.
Like Mike, I really think taking a year off and focusing purely on you will help you start to realize even more about who you truly are and what truly makes you happy. Once you do that, then you can find the person that will fit with your true self...and usually sooner than a year.
GASlick:
I agree with Paul. What you are experiencing I think is called "growing up".
I hit that about 4 or 5 years ago myself. I am currently 37. That "got to get some now" mentality wanes about mid thirties and you start focusing on more adult subject matter. And I don't mean what it sounds like. I met my wife and we got married very young. Some people even say to young. I was 21 and she was 20 when we got married. I have had my personal ups and downs, but she has always stood right there beside me during my insanities.
What I found that works for me is what I call the "Stephen Weekend". About twice a year or so I go away by myself and do whatever it is I want to do. My wife is wonderful and I found my soul mate early in life. Not everyone does.
Keep your head up and keep doing what you're doing......one day she'll show up.
As for your disclaimer - I don't judge anyone by how they look. It's personal expression. O0 I'm not going into detail, but people have formed opinions about me without KNOWING me, so I make a pointed effort to respect everyone until they give me reason not to. Good Luck man.
nomad:
--- Quote from: Tyler on July 29, 2008, 06:53:46 PM ---I do a LOT of what Marz just said. I think the guys that met me this weekend can attest to that.
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I never seen anything Ty :*))
But seriously Vash, brother I'm in the same boat. some of our married brothers here have said that they live vicariously through us single guys, but in reality its the other way around we want what some of them have. It has been great being single for the last couple of years but at times I miss the things you stated. There are alot of things that I love about being single, but ALOT more things i miss about having someone.
Don't give up bro but don't try to dam hard either.
and if you find any extras let me know :*))
BaldRob:
--- Quote from: nomad on July 29, 2008, 10:03:09 PM ---some of our married brothers here have said that they live vicariously through us single guys, but in reality its the other way around we want what some of them have. It has been great being single for the last couple of years but at times I miss the things you stated. There are alot of things that I love about being single, but ALOT more things i miss about having someone.
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Can I get an AMEN!!
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