Jer we can swap. You can have the pounds I'm trying to lose. I got down from 200 to 180 for a while. Then laid off the gym and went back to breads and carbs and eating out again for the summer. Now I'm up to 188 again, but I'm working on it.
And as for the intimidation factor, the shades work for the look you need. I was told I need to get me a pair of dark intimidating shades to complete the look. Since it was a hot girl who suggested it, I am definitely going to follow through. Sadly, I'm a tightwad with money and hate buying sunglasses!