http://www.apa.org/monitor/2008/05/marriage.html''A psychologist's attempt to improve marriages provides an interesting glimpse into the social norms of the 1930s—and into one of the first scientific matchmaking services.'' 
Adding some more
DEMERITSDo you...
Flick your ashes on the floor?
Leave whiskers in the bathroom sink?
Leave the seat up? (5)
Read the paper at the breakfast table?
Sit around the living room in an undershirt?
Warm your feet in the kitchen stove?
Belch out loud? (5)
Chew matchsticks?
Clean your ears with keys?
Shirk household tasks because that's "women's work"? (5)
MERITSDo you...
Remember birthdays and anniversaries without being prompted?
Do household chores without being asked? (5)
Pour the milk into a glass instead of drinking it out of the bottle?
Ask how your wife's day went -- and sincerely want to know the answer?
Know how to change a baby? (5)
Put a napkin in your lap at the table instead of stuffing it down your collar?
Remember to take the cigar out of your mouth before kissing your wife? (5)
