A question for the ladies on here

[Paul]

Really sorry to hear that bro.  In my thoughts and prayers as well.  Will she consider counseling?  To come from out of left field like that and be willing to give up your son, sounds like there is something far greater bothering her.

[Marz]

Very sorry to hear that. I hope for the best for you and remember, your bald brothers are always here for support.

[nomad]

Very sorry to hear that. I hope for the best for you and remember, your bald brothers are always here for support.

Freak I couldn't say it any better I hope for the best for you and the misses and we are here for you brother.

[wpruitt]

You are in my thoughts and prayers

[Razor X]

I'm really sorry to hear this.  In my totally non-expert opinion, based on what you've told us, it sounds like she's in a state of depression or has something else wrong with her.  Have you talked to her parents?  It sounds like she needs some professional help.  Maybe together, you and her parents can persuade her to seek some treatment.   If the doctors can help her, maybe then there's a good chance that you can get  your relationship back on track.  I know that there isn't much any of us here can do but listen and offer sympathy.  If you need to talk about it, you know where we are. 

Best of luck.

[champ007]

Bald_Freak, I guess I will be the one to say it but 9 out of 10 times a woman is willing to give her child up is because she met someone and the child is gonna get in the way.
Protect your ass and get legal advice and custody of your son asap. You need to lookout for yourself and your son first, no matter how much you love her. Somethings not adding up and you have to look at the signs, one minute she wants nothing to do with you cause shes planning something, then the uncertainty sets in and she all of a sudden loves you again. It could be a mental thing but that is more a reason the protect yourself and your son first, then you can seek medical help for her if its the case.
If anyone leaves it needs to be her, keep your home and your son. It will help your child in dealing with a seperation if he remains in a familiar environment,and as I stated he needs to be your main concern.
Talk with her parents if you have a good relationship with them, but be cautious of their intentions.
Hang in there, and feel free to PM me if I make any sense and you want to discuss.
As always we are all here to help a brother out.

[GASlick]

I hate to sound cold, but I agree with Champ.  Something is going on.  A woman who is willing to give up a child has something else going on.  My wife would wade through hell with a stick before giving up one of her children.

I'm praying for you, and your family.

[Mikekoz13]

I agree with Gaslick and Champ..... I've been thru this myself in the past.

Good advice by Champ to NOT leave...... keep your child in your home with you. If you leave, you stand to lose everything you don't take with you. hang tough my brother.

                   Prayers for you and your family....

[xnewyawka]

Hey Dan, sorry to hear about what you're going through, I can only imagine it must hurt like hell. But I do agree with champ, ga and mike. You gotta stay strong for yourself and for your son, bro. I wish you the best and keep us posted if you can. We're here for you.

[warhawk]

dan....i'm just now reading your latest update.  i just want 2 let ya know that U will b in my prayers during this difficult time.  i pray that God will give U strength 2 make it thru this & strength 2 B there 4 your son.  take care & remember that your sly brahs R here 4 U.  give me a pm anytime.  take care.

WARHAWK

[PigPen]

Dan, hang in there buddy. I know this can be very rough. Champ gave some very sound advice. Sounds like the voice of experience too.

[schro]

Dan, hate to say it, but I think Champ, GASlick, Mike & XNY might be onto something. I can't imagine a scenario where a woman would voluntarily give up her child without there being someone else in the picture. This is totally out of the norm and (from what it sounds), a complete blindside. Champ's advice is rock solid...protect yourself legally (for some reason, it doesn't sound like she's on solid footing in this case) and gain custody of your son.

It does still sound like you love her, so maybe there's still hope to reconcile.
We're here if you need us.
Schro

[champ007]

Its been 7 days and Bald_Freak hasn't posted. I hope the Bro is doing ok... 

[nomad]

Its been 7 days and Bald_Freak hasn't posted. I hope the Bro is doing ok... 

I was on yesterday and was thinking the same thing. I really hope he's getting along and ok.

[Bald_freak]

Sorry to make you fellas worry, I was pc less for a few days(wife has been hiding up in the room, which is where the computer is) I'm at my Dad's now. I've been here since Saturday. I've calmed down a little. The last 2 days before the move were the lowest I've ever been in my life. If it wasn't for the complete out pour of support from you guys, myspace friends, family, and co workers I don't know if I'd made it with out winding up in a straight jacket.(I spent time in a rubber room years ago). I'm slowly accepting that I need to move on. And having a few cute lay days smile at me up here has help boost my decimated ego a little. I've talked to TimmJ right before the move on phone. He's goofy on here, but I'll tell you what, he's one good hearted dude.