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Some thoughts about men's hair by Razor X on 26 Oct, 2007 22:54
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The truth of the matter is, that even before it starts thinning or receding, most guys do not have great hair. A lucky few do -- the rest of us make do with hair that never quite does what we want it to. So why do we make such a huge deal out of it when it starts to disappear? The fear of change, perhaps?
Things have changed a lot since I started shaving my head. It was becoming more accepted then, but nothing like it is today. I sat on the fence for a long time. I kind of wish I was just now getting to the point where I needed to start shaving. I'd like to know if it would be an easier decision to make now than it was back then. -
#1 by shyslyguy on 27 Oct, 2007 03:08
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Interesting question Razor. Not sure that I fancy being in that place again though - much happier these days than I was back then. I think though that to a certain extent, it must be easier for guys today if only because as you say, so many of us decide to go the sly route that it's not such a drastic decision as it perhaps once was & many men today, as we know are bbc anyway.
On the other hand I doubt that the process of losing one's hair per se has got any easier - as you say, most people have a fear of change - particularly negative change & if you've had hair all your life up to that point (as most of us do) & suddenly it starts rapidly disappearing whichever way you look at it it's hard not to see it as a narrowing of your options, after all you can always decide to be bbc but if you are going bald naturally, you can't just decide to have hair again one day.
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#2 by Razor X on 27 Oct, 2007 07:51
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I think though that to a certain extent, it must be easier for guys today if only because as you say, so many of us decide to go the sly route that it's not such a drastic decision as it perhaps once was & many men today, as we know are bbc anyway.
Yes, that's what I meant -- not that I actually wanted to go through the hair loss thing again. Once is enough for that.
You summed up what I wanted to say better than I did.
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#3 by SLYinKC on 27 Oct, 2007 09:14
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I think it has a lot to do with losing control. We all have a natural tendency to want to be in control of our lives and our destinies. When hair loss starts, it is a loss of control of an important part of who we are.
Being SLY is a natural way to take back control and put the ball back in our court....not mother natures. -
#4 by Razor X on 27 Oct, 2007 22:42
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I think it has a lot to do with losing control. We all have a natural tendency to want to be in control of our lives and our destinies. When hair loss starts, it is a loss of control of an important part of who we are.
Being SLY is a natural way to take back control and put the ball back in our court....not mother natures.
The problem with hair loss is that it is usually a very long, drawn-out process. That's a blessing in the very beginning, but when you inevitably get to one of the awkward stages, you can be stuck there for a very long time. At that point you just wish the hair was gone - and that's when you know it's time to shave.
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#5 by nomad on 27 Oct, 2007 22:45
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I know for me it was kinda tough when i first noticed that I was losing my hair. I was all about my hair way back when, I had the "cool " hair thing going on, real long and every woman wished there hair was as good as mine. I had the Sampson effect going on in my head But after the last donation when I really noticed the loss the thing that kept me going at first was that I beat my brother as he was losing his at a very young age. It was the joke of it that kept me ok with it but then I just came to a big realization that, that part of my life is over and I have to go with what I have. the worse it got the more I kept saying I was going to just "bic it" but it did take a long time to get the balls to do it. Now I keep kicking myself for not doing it earlier. It was the best thing I have ever done for myself.