So for years i was uncomfortable with and tried to hide the fact that my hair was thinning. Never went outside without a hat, every mirror reminded me to check if my remaining hair would cover the light areas...
Three months ago, i finally shaved it. I told my wife a few weeks beforehand, so the shock wouldn't be that big for her. When we met (15 yrs ago) i had longish hair, the last years it was cut 'normal' short. She did tell me sometimes (even long before my balding really showed of), she has a thing for bald men.
But as things got real, she was very reluctant. Although i told her, that i would need her support with this decision, to become/stay confident with being bald, she barely could make me the smallest compliment since i shaved. So i showed her pictures from right before and after to compare, and she even agreed it looks much better now. Still, i don't feel supported by her in that regard. Only when i let it grow out for a week or longer, i get a positive comment about it.
Other people like family, coworkers and friends haven't been very supportive, too. I don't get called names all the time, but there also hasn't been any positive comment so far. Very few people tried to be friendly by calling me brave, but nobody said it would look attractive, or masculine, or cool, or anything nice. The most common reactions were silence and questioning why. Because of that, i still wear a hat most of the time. I only feel comfortable without it, when i am around strangers who don't know me at all or not for very long.
I know, what matters is only how i like it and i should show my head no matter what. But i am still working on my confidence, having the feeling everybody dislikes my appearance doesn't help with that.
Despite all that, i really like being bald. I love the feeling and how it looks. And i honestly don't understand how unsupportive people are. Mostly, i don't get how my wife doesn't seem to be attracted by me being bald. I know, my head is big and has some dents, but does it really look that bad? I find it suits me quite well.