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reddog:
I recently started dating a gal I really like. Met her on a singles site, and she seems great.

The problem is I am having 2 eye surgeries this month, so decided to give shaving a break. All my photos on the singles site are of me with a shaved head, but our first meeting I had a couple weeks growth. I had a feeling that was a mistake. So this week I mentioned I needed a haircut, and of course she said she likes me with hair.

So, I don't want to screw things up with her, but my dermatitis is acting up, and I miss being sly. Guess I should just man up and shave it and hope for the best. Any ideas guys?

Magoo:
Red dog , you old rascal , and I thought you were one of us old married type. Any way if it was me , I would go with the same haircut you had on the last date. You can always shave in the future after you get better acquainted.

ThePangolin:
If she's right for you, she won't stop seeing you because you saved off a few days worth of hair growth.... If anything, she will most likely prefer and learn to love the smooth head.

I dont know what to suggest since I've never dated, (fiddle) but I do think its important to be you and if someone doesn't like how you do "you" then they probably arent worth getting with, right?

dshupe:
I agree, if she's right for you, she will continue seeing you. BUT, you did say all your pictures on the site showed you with a shaved head so really it won't be a huge surprise.  I would just talk to her and when she realizes the reason for you not being able to shave I would think she would understand and think nothing of it. 

mrzed:
And you have a good reason to shave your head. Dermatitis. 

You do sport a bald head very well.  Yep.

I thought it was only the young guys who worried about no hair and a girl. 

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