I am sorry you are going through all this, sCarl, but welcome to the board.
What went wrong with your transplant? Have you spoken with the surgeon or clinic about your concerns? I am no expert on the procedure, but my understanding is that it can take a year or so for the scalp to heal and the transplanted follicles to start to grow.
There are several guys on this forum who have shaved after a transplant and had their scalps treated to remove or lessen the scars. It can be done, if that is what you want. You, however, might be amplifying how the scar and pitting appear. We tend to be our own worst critics about our personal imperfections while almost no one else is aware or thinks about them when they see us.
In any case, it is good to have you join us here. Hopefully, some of the guys who have gone through the transplant procedure will be along soon.