If you're looking for a pity party, you've come to the wrong place.
I'm sure you don't look as old and aged as you are describing yourself. You are 24 and are a young man. Losing your hair is not going to age you that much. I'm sure no one is looking at you with disgust. Japanese men go bald, too. It's not the end of the world. Maybe things are even more difficult for you because you are in a foreign place, away from home without friends or a source of support.While losing your hair can be a difficult thing - it was for me, too - we eventually realize that a head of hair is not important in the grand scheme of things. There are many men who were or are in the same position as you. Your hair doesn't define who you are as a person.This site is a great source of support. Read about others who have felt like you. Their stories and advice may help you.
Hello angryyoungman, maybe I could be the best adviser for you. I'm now surprised to find a guy who is in the opposite situation of me. I come from Japan and have lived in Germany since 4 years! I experienced the same situation to you and can image and understand how you suffer from it.I must say first of all, Japanese people look much younger than you European from the beginning. This can never be changed. We must accept it. We Japanese have much less wrinkles, curves and beard, and our hairs are very dark, hard and thick. By comparison with European there are much less Japanese boys who go balding in his teenager or 20's. You envy of the young looking of Japanese guys, but on the contrary I envy of your looks! European guys looking older than his real age are very very masculine, sexy, gentle, calm and intelligent. I wish I could look so...I work now in a company with 30 German colleagues. I'll become 30 soon and there are a couple of peers in 20s and 30s, however I feel often as if I were only a child, because they look much more mature and grownup than me. To look older I had tried to grow my beard, but it didn't help me. My mustache and beard are very very very thin and whiskers never grow up. I sometimes lost my confidence from this reason...All of your conflict based on racial things. We can not change it so easily, but we can change our mind. Don't think that your older looking is only negative. There must be people who envy of your mature looking like me. If you want, I can advise you personally too. Wir können uns sogar auf Deutsch oder Japanisch reden ;-)
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