Fiirst off, Welcome. As far as shaving with a mole, I have the same problem. Do not use a hair removal cream or lotion like nair as that will burn the hell out of the mole and take forever to heal. I tried that many years ago and needless to say that was the last time I did that. You can try to use an electric razor around the mole area but I would not recommend this on your whole head. They work for some but for most you dont get a close enough shave. I personally use a headblade with the Sensor 3 baldes. When I get to my mole I pull out the fusion and go over the mole. The blades are close enough together, because there are 5 of them, that you shouldnt nick it. I had a lot of problems with the Mach 3 blades nicking it because of the gap between the blades. As far as shaving lotion, for me it is Headslick all the way. Good luck and you will love being sly!