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I lost all my self confidence
DOC_OSMC:
Glad you took the time to post and update us on your progress. I'm especially glad that you took control of your situation and came out on top, the winner, as I knew you would. You've embraced all the good things that come with taking charge and shaving your head, and I'm sure you feel like a new man! Good on you mate! Please continue to update us and post often. Others can benefit from your experience.
EmDe:
I agree with all the great points of advice so far.
Personally, I chose to buzz my hair very short instead of shaving it smooth. Maybe the short buzz will also be a good solution for you nazi-concern? You can at least try it for a while... When I buzzed my head to 2 mm or so, I walked out the door and I felt like floating on a cloud. You will love the feeling of relief that there is nothing to hide anymore. You will just think: "Hello world, this is me, take it our leave it". It feels liberating after months or years of intense stress and insecurity.
Also, be aware that bald or buzzed does not directly correlate with attractiveness. Most men with a full head of hair aren't very good looking... only some might be. But the same goes for bald/buzzed men! Most people agree though, that buzzed/bald actually DOES look better than a balding hair style. Plus, in the current situation, you feel miserable... All this means you really have something to win -> Give it a shot, buzz it short and enjoy the sun on your head. From there you can always consider to shave it with a razor sometime.
Good luck and take care man... you really seem aware of the fact that something has to happen in your life and that is the important first step. Now give yourself your life back :) O, and from my personal experience: other people won't give a damn about your new look... they will only react positively when they see how you have grown comfortable in your own skin again.
njbill:
It took me awhile but the quickest path to acceptance for me was just to say "screw it and be the bald guy" you're in college, hit the gym....if you're fat cut down the carbs and beer and drink whiskey (no carb) if you're skinny, get some steak in ya.
Harry Bringle:
Did u ever consult with any Dermatologist or any skin specialist?If u can't grow u'r hair, u can use False hair when u go outside.
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