Dude....lose the cap and enjoy the instant feeling of relief....and the nagging feeling of "why did I wait so long" I absolutely guarantee it....stop wasting your life, you may as well be wearing an awful wig.,... What it the wind blows? What if an absolute honey wants to go swimming? Or anywhere and you keep turning up wearing a freakin hat?! Time to man up my friend, take the damn hat off, women won't scream, children won't cry, no one gives a cr@p but you.....