Author Topic: I am a woman dating a bald guy - help with the etiquette, please!  (Read 11065 times)

Offline Montreal

  • Learning the way of Sly
  • *
  • Posts: 1
Hi!
I am a woman who has been dating an amazing, beautiful man for a few weeks now. I don't mind at all that he has a completely shaven head; he's gorgeous and wonderful! However, I've never dated a bald guy, so help me out, SBGs: do bald men like having their heads touched/stroked?? Is this unpleasant or ticklish, or does it feel nice?? I'm afraid to ask him because I don't want to seem silly or insensitive. He doesn't seem insecure about it at all (nor should he be). Guidance, please!! Many thanks.



Offline Cave Dweller

  • Bald & Bearded and staying that way.
  • Team Sly
  • Sly Bureau
  • ******
  • Posts: 1665
  • Country: us
  • Not Bear nor Troll - just in the dark with the TV
Re: I am a woman dating a bald guy - help with the etiquette, please!
« Reply #1 on: July 26, 2013, 02:23:05 PM »
I can speak only for myself, but I happen to love it when my wife lightly strokes my head.
It feels REALLY good.

Think about this: are you at the point in your relationship that you would not hesitate to run your fingers through his hair if he had it? If so, then I don't see why you would think twice about gliding your finger tips over his scalp.
« Last Edit: July 26, 2013, 07:31:54 PM by Cave Dweller »
"A man who has lost his hair and is bald is clean."
Leviticus 13:40
(Do not argue with Moses!)

Offline reddog

  • Sly Bureau
  • *****
  • Posts: 2013
  • Country: us
Re: I am a woman dating a bald guy - help with the etiquette, please!
« Reply #2 on: July 26, 2013, 02:39:11 PM »
I love when my Honey rubs my head. I have even taken her hand and placed it there.
Bald by choice, and loving it!

Offline Tyler

  • The Count of Sly
  • Administrator
  • Sly Nobility
  • *****
  • Posts: 13405
  • Country: us
    • SILIST - Smitty's Information List
Re: I am a woman dating a bald guy - help with the etiquette, please!
« Reply #3 on: July 26, 2013, 02:40:34 PM »
Most bald/shaven men LOVE a head rub!  There are a lot of nerve endings up there, so it can feel really good.
People are not limited by the circumstance that they are born in. They are limited by the size of their dreams. Show them that their dreams can have no limits and in turn their accomplishments can be limitless.

Offline Hingatao

  • Sly Bureau
  • *****
  • Posts: 1724
  • Country: 00
Re: I am a woman dating a bald guy - help with the etiquette, please!
« Reply #4 on: July 26, 2013, 02:49:45 PM »
I love it when my partner rubs my head!
Hair is over rated.

Offline ChadF

  • Learning the way of Sly
  • *
  • Posts: 6
Re: I am a woman dating a bald guy - help with the etiquette, please!
« Reply #5 on: July 26, 2013, 05:06:42 PM »
I totally agree. My sweetheart rubs my head constantly, and I love it. Great feeling. Go for it!

Offline greatnessinc

  • One part iron man one part superman
  • Ultimate Sly Guy
  • *****
  • Posts: 773
  • Country: 00
  • Semper Sly!
Re: I am a woman dating a bald guy - help with the etiquette, please!
« Reply #6 on: July 26, 2013, 06:28:33 PM »
Head rubs are absolutely acceptable.
"Ifyou're going through hell, just keep going"
-Winston Churchill

Offline Sir Harry

  • Sly Kegler
  • Sly Moderator
  • Sly Nobility
  • *****
  • Posts: 5724
  • Country: us
Re: I am a woman dating a bald guy - help with the etiquette, please!
« Reply #7 on: July 26, 2013, 07:46:48 PM »
I love it when ANY woman rubs my head...no, seriously, I really do. If you and your BF have reached that level, he may actually want you to do it but afraid to ask....I say go for it!
Even when the d is removed, the devil is still evil.

Offline leighmundo40

  • Super Sly
  • ****
  • Posts: 321
Re: I am a woman dating a bald guy - help with the etiquette, please!
« Reply #8 on: July 27, 2013, 03:52:16 AM »
Head rubs can be lovely, slapping him repeatedly on his head like Benny Hill did to that little dude, isnt!

Offline mangosink12572

  • Team Sly
  • Sly Bureau
  • ******
  • Posts: 1242
  • Country: us
  • Wonderful SHINY BALD
Re: I am a woman dating a bald guy - help with the etiquette, please!
« Reply #9 on: July 27, 2013, 12:28:58 PM »
Nothing like a nice "head rub"   A hostess in one of the restaurants I have lunch in makes me take my hat off so she can rub my bald head. I love it.

Offline stasiu

  • Ultimate Sly Guy
  • *****
  • Posts: 850
  • Country: 00
  • All dressed up & no hair to go !
Re: I am a woman dating a bald guy - help with the etiquette, please!
« Reply #10 on: July 27, 2013, 02:55:13 PM »
I am 5'6" tall and enjoy the head rub thing from guys and gals.  Why ?  It makes me feel like I got gold stars on my report card.  If I have a great time with the waitress/waiter in a restaurant and they want to rub my head ... that is so-o-o-o cool !  I'm not taking them home with me !  I'm just being me !   Just be your self ... enjoy the bald guy ... the rest will happen !

Offline Mr Jules

  • Sly Bureau
  • *****
  • Posts: 1728
  • Country: gb
  • Same great sly look. Every day.
    • You Tube channel
Re: I am a woman dating a bald guy - help with the etiquette, please!
« Reply #11 on: July 27, 2013, 03:42:51 PM »
like Benny Hill did to that little dude, isnt!

Ah yes, Benny Hill. Running around gardens high speed style to the backdrop of slap stick music and Hannah Barbera cartoon sound effects. I miss the late 1970s, I really do !

Offline greatnessinc

  • One part iron man one part superman
  • Ultimate Sly Guy
  • *****
  • Posts: 773
  • Country: 00
  • Semper Sly!
Re: I am a woman dating a bald guy - help with the etiquette, please!
« Reply #12 on: July 27, 2013, 04:09:29 PM »
Head rubs are fine, what's not fine is rubbing his head and saying I wish you had hair here.
"Ifyou're going through hell, just keep going"
-Winston Churchill

Offline wutwutman

  • Super Sly
  • ****
  • Posts: 259
  • "Isaac Hayes style boy!" lol
Re: I am a woman dating a bald guy - help with the etiquette, please!
« Reply #13 on: July 29, 2013, 10:21:30 AM »
Headrubs = YES, please!   ;D
** Wutwutman **
"To shave or not to shave... is that really a question?"

Offline baldOUfan

  • Sly Okie
  • Sly
  • ***
  • Posts: 199
  • Country: us
  • Boomer Sooner
Re: I am a woman dating a bald guy - help with the etiquette, please!
« Reply #14 on: July 29, 2013, 10:38:04 AM »
Kiss it, shave for him ect.