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Offline wang

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pass!
« on: January 06, 2013, 11:50:17 AM »
I passed the 30 day rule a week ago. I feel great! But still feel uncomfortable with everyone. I am afraid they might think I am silly. I know it takes time however I still need the support from you guys who with the experience. May be you can suggest me different way to think then get rid of it totally. I shave my head every second day. Sometime everyday. Still trying. Thanks.
« Last Edit: January 06, 2013, 12:14:47 PM by wang »



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Re: pass!
« Reply #1 on: January 06, 2013, 11:55:00 AM »
Welcome wang, 

If you look silly so do many , many of us others !  Put up a picture and feel at home.   O0 8)
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Re: pass!
« Reply #2 on: January 06, 2013, 12:01:11 PM »
Firstly, congratulations! well done!

Im over 12months and I still feel the same as you. I think it's more us than others. Everyone is used to it now, probably forgotton how you looked prior to the big chop.

Youll get there in time, no rush, no time scale.

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Re: pass!
« Reply #3 on: January 06, 2013, 12:04:35 PM »
If you've passed the 30 day mark then you are well and truly in front.  Probably no one noticed or the compliments are flowing. jsut continue to show how confident you are with the new you.  Welcome
Roger

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« Reply #4 on: January 06, 2013, 12:16:54 PM »
If you've passed the 30 day mark then you are well and truly in front.  Probably no one noticed or the compliments are flowing. jsut continue to show how confident you are with the new you.  Welcome
This^^^ Congrats and welcome to the SBG!

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Re: pass!
« Reply #5 on: January 06, 2013, 12:47:36 PM »
Welcome to the club, wang.
Hair is over rated.

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Re: pass!
« Reply #6 on: January 06, 2013, 01:47:33 PM »
G'Day Wang,

Welcome and well done mate  O0

Wang, if some people think it's silly, then let them think that. Your not going to be to everyone's taste.
Some people look even sillier with hair, so I wouldn't let it worry you.

The main and most important thing is that YOU like your new Slyness!! Enjoy!!!

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Re: pass!
« Reply #7 on: January 06, 2013, 01:49:22 PM »
I agree with Oz.

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Re: pass!
« Reply #8 on: January 06, 2013, 01:51:01 PM »
People either accept us the way we choose to be, or they don't. If they don't, screw em.

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Re: pass!
« Reply #9 on: January 06, 2013, 03:55:35 PM »
Welcome mate,

Congrats on the first 30 days of hopefully many!
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Re: pass!
« Reply #10 on: January 06, 2013, 06:19:33 PM »
Thanks guys. You guys are awesome! And the site too. The forum, the people here and the 30 day rule brought me to be myself totally. I can learn a lot here to be the sly! Thanks again guys.  O0

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Re: pass!
« Reply #11 on: January 06, 2013, 06:52:25 PM »
Welcome, wang! You look great; pull up a chair and post often!
Even when the d is removed, the devil is still evil.

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Re: pass!
« Reply #12 on: January 06, 2013, 08:01:50 PM »
G'day Wang,

Firstly welcome to the family mate, you look awesome sly, a real natural and I can't think of why you might think you look silly at all...

Congratulations on making your first 30 days, may you have many more. I also prefer to shave every second day. And how sneaky of you for starting your first 30 days and not saying hi first :P I'm glad you finally came out of the shadows and into the sunshine though  O0

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Re: pass!
« Reply #13 on: January 06, 2013, 08:14:45 PM »
Welcome Wang, you look just fine. And you will adjust to the new image with time. It's a big change ... but one day you'll look in the mirror and realize that person is totally you and familiar. Don't worry about the change or how long it takes to adapt.

So what should you worry about regarding being bald/sly?

Absolutely nothing. No worries about when to get a haircut. No worries about whether it is styled / sprayed / gelled correctly to hide any perceived imperfections. No worries about covering it up with a hat. No worries about what happens if it gets wet.

So ... breathe deeply ... relax ... and enjoy the freedom you have brought to yourself.
"Sly can adapt to all surroundings!" - Wisdom from KG 8/19/2012

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Re: pass!
« Reply #14 on: January 07, 2013, 01:23:57 AM »
Welcome to the bald brotherhood wang. You look great bald. Congratulations on the 30days. No need to feel uncomfortable being bald, you look perfect with that shine on your bare head just like we all do here. By the way, where are you from?
Mabuhay ang mga kalbo!

 



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