hey guys! seriously, thanks for all the advice!
went for a no guard yesterday (know its not completely sly but almost right?)
i love it! feel so free from constantly looking at my reflection feeling sorry for myself.
most people didnt even know i was loosing my hair and just thought id gone for a shaved head and all said it suited me. such a relief! and i feel a million times more comfortable!
dont think i could have done it without this forum! for this i thank you all so much and will help other in any way i can