All I can think about all day every day is my damn hair loss and how stupid I would look bald
Hey man,I can completely relate to you with this, so hopefully something from my experience will help you. I started losing my hair when I was about 18, but it didn't get noticeably thin until I was about 21.It really screwed with me, combined with my girlfriend breaking up with me, confidence and self-esteem was at an all time low. I got to a point where, between being 21 until about a month ago (I'm now 24), I wouldn't go out without a hat on and if I had to go somewhere where I couldn't wear a hat I'd stress over trying to get my thinning hair to look "good". I used to dread going into a pub or club in case they asked me to take my hat off. It was a really difficult time, none of my friends were losing their hair, and it really does suck away self-confidence.It all changed when I got back from holiday in August, and looked back at photos. I was going through and deleting the ones where the camera was at an angle that showed off the top of my head. It was then that I realised that I was sick and tired of constantly thinking about what I can do to try and pretend that I still had a decent head of hair. And after reading around on this forum I realised that not only is it ok to be bald, its actually cool.I went to my barber, and got him to buzz it down to a number 1, and that's where its stayed since. I was so stoked with how I looked and felt I went out the next day and bought a set of clippers. Shaving it off really was such a liberating feeling, and I honestly felt a huge wave of relief knowing that I no longer had to be concerned with how my hair looks. I've had loads of great feedback, in particular one friend who, when she saw it for the first time came out with "oh my god, that is so sexy". No matter what you may think, the majority of girls either dig it, or really couldn't care less. There are some that prefer dudes with hair, but that exactly the same as a guy having a preference for girls with red hair over girls with blonde hair.The main things that I've learnt over the last month are that being bald doesn't mean you're sending your boys down below into early retirement. Quite the opposite, with a shaven head my confidence is the highest its been for years. I'm getting compliments on my hair (or, head), I'm finding it so much easier to talk to girls, and they're more receptive. Its all about having confidence in yourself. I've also just got a new job, which I really doubt I'd have been able to get without my new found confidence. So there are benefits all round.Along with the added bonus of not having to deal with bed hair or hat hair. Sorry for the long post, but I'm hoping that something in there will help you move past your folicular hang ups. Its better to be bald than balding.All the best, dude.Lee