Yeah Gutsy, we all feel for you. But, as you didn't hurt your typing fingers please keep the posts coming. You mean a lot to all of us as can be seen from the enormous number of responses to your posts and their overwhelming positive nature.
It's just too rare right now for sly women [first time I've used that term, this place must be getting to me] to be seen or heard from. You are obviously a strong-minded and independent young woman -- it's really good to see. I bet you don't take much BS from anyone.