You really want to, but don't ask!

[KG]

Whether you're newly sly or have been handsome for a while, it always feels great to get positive feedback from the opposite sex.  "I like it", "You look younger", or "Badass!" are compliments you will often hear when sly.  

But if she doesn't come out with it, my advice is this:  Don't ask for her opinion.  It could portray weakness, like you are seeking her approval.  Similar to inquiring about how she enjoyed the most recent intercourse.  Not smooth.  I say your own opinion is the one that matters.  Be the strong man, "I'm doing this whether anyone likes it or not".  This attitude plays big with the ladies.

[Frontier Guy]

This attitude plays big with the ladies.

It plays well with everyone. A confident man is admired universally unless the admirer has issues with self-esteem or envy.

[kalbo]

I agree 100% with you FrontierGuy.

[Paul the Headblader]

I must say that I receive better feedback since I went sly. some of them ask about it, some don't.

[KG]

I must say that I receive better feedback since I went sly. some of them ask about it, some don't.

Agreed.  I've also found much more positive feedback as a SBG, a vast improvement over zero.

[waine]

Good points KG and Frontierguy.

I have had some awesome comments from women, and then some women have asked why I did it and then remained silent after I answer.  Sometimes silence can speak volumes.

I soak up compliments and reject any negative vibe.  And I never ask anyone, "How do you think Sly suits me?"  Their answer is not important, why do I need approval? This is my decision and I love it, regardless of what others think. 

[Mikekoz13]

The bottom line.... be the man that YOU want to be. Being who you want to be will instill confidence in a man.
 An ugly guy like me shouldn't have the beautiful wife I have but she was "swept into my personal vortex" by my confidence.

[Frontier Guy]

And based on your avatar photo, Mike, she's not complaining!

[waine]

The bottom line.... be the man that YOU want to be. Being who you want to be will instill confidence in a man.
 An ugly guy like me shouldn't have the beautiful wife I have but she was "swept into my personal vortex" by my confidence.

Nice one Mike... 

[Free at Last]

Definitely got to stay up on your game.
Strong, Confident and Funny.
Works great for me.
 More girls like it than I thought...
Some hate it but you cant please em all
 I have been called a bad ass more in this month than ever in my life
ITS ALL GOOD...

[KG]

I suppose each individual sports the sly look a little differently.  Distinguished, clean, intelligent, trendy... but I certainly don't mind being called Bad Ass.   

[silverking]

In all aspects of life it's best not to ask a woman for her opinion.
if a woman says NOTHING it's a good thing almost.

[Sir Harry]

Good points guys.....Had I applied some of these principles earlier in life maybe, just maybe....I may still be married today.

[tomgallagher]

I take my que from the old Telly Savalas character "Kojak". "Who loves ya baby.?"

[Free at Last]

Yea Kojak... 

 I am gonna you tube some of his shows...
He was Great!