This is getting old. I have had about 5 or 6 responses. I send a second email and don't hear back. I don't come across as overly aggressive or creepy.(I asked a female friend of mine) One girl and I IM'ed back and forth for an hour, exchanged FB profiles and I gave her my cell#. Haven't heard from her. I must be more hideous than I thought....
Hello again beanerdawg,
I understand your frustration and emotional distress. The dating world can be very challenging. It can try your patience and test your faith in humanity. It can even effect your mental and physical health if you allow it. It's important to maintain perspective. Don't allow yourself to go on an emotional roller coaster. If you do, you will become a prisoner of your own mind. Trust me, I'm speaking from experience. Don't allow your mind to go to that dark place. There is hope for you my friend.
I don't think that you are coming across as creepy or overly aggressive. I also don't think that you appear desperate. It's possible, but not likely. I believe your problem has a lot to do with your age. Women in your age range are always in great demand. These young ladies have a much larger pool of men to choose from. For that reason, they can be more selective than their male counterparts. The playing field for dating is not a level one. Women tend to hold most of the cards. However, things tend to shift later in life. After about 30 years old the field starts to level. I'm not telling you that you have to wait until you are 30. I'm just letting you know that the situation does improve over time.
Here is my advice, maintain perspective. Remember that these ladies have many more options than you. Don't get hung up on one woman until you know that she is serious and sincere. Keep trying, don't give up on the process. Love is well worth the effort. You may get a lot of nos, but you only need one yes. You are a hunter. Stay in the hunt until you bag yourself a babe. She is out there and she wants you to come get her.
Take care buddy
