Ex girlfriend told me she doesn't feel attracted to me

[BaldHDbiker]

Shave your head and don't associate with your ex. You will feel much better about yourself and will find girls that are attracted to you as a person.

[stasiu]

Here's some video help :

[buddha]

She was an ex gf before we had the conversation. Then she called me up last night and told me straight up, "I am not attracted to bald guys."
http://m1253.photobucket.com/albumview/albums/delancey3/Mobile%20Uploads/1333414385.jpg.html?o=0

So she's been the "ex" for a while, yet she's still calling you up? And she's calling you to inform you that she's not attracted to bald guys? This sounds like a girl with some issues. Best thing to do is utilize a wonderful invention named Caller ID. When you see her number come up on an incoming call just set the phone down and move away from it. Maybe she'll get the message and stop calling.....which is what EXs are supposed to do. Or if you do answer the phone you might just ask her straight out why she insists on polluting your air with the shrillness of her toxic words and then hang up.
As for the rest of it I have to go along with the guys who have indicated that the real problem you have is an internal one. Maybe it's because of my years or maybe my experience (or maybe both) but I have developed the attitude that if someone is not paying my expenses or "physically sevicing me" (or both) I don't give a fart in a hurricane for their opinion. And I've told a number of people what I think of their opinions over the years. Not exactly the way to win friends and influence people, I admit, but it does seperate the wheat from the chaff.

[4fit]

Buddha 

[Slyfive]

Shave it and make being bald yet another attractive trait. My lady goes wild for the bald now, but she always said she wouldn't like it before... Like the guys said in your other thread, real friends, and genuinely interested women won't bat an eyelid, because it's YOU they're interested in, not your hair. Also, anyone who is that intent on kicking you while you're down about hairloss is obviously so insecure that they need to hide their insecurities in hateful words.

[Razor X]

Shave your head and don't associate with your ex.

I agree. Time to move on.   

[quietstorm]

If you spend your time worrying about what people think then your life is a sham.... You will miss out on being YOU, consumed on pleasing people who may really not care one way or the other what you do......  The ex doesn't like bald heads, why are you trying to please an ex? She will be doing her thing and you will be worrying about what she thinks... You have to start doing what's right for you and the confidence will kick in.... Saw the pic and you would look better sly and doing this for YOU is a step in the right direction

[Cropduster84]

Looking at your pics, you could easily pull off the sly look.

It would make you look a lot younger too. I always think throwing a little facial hair in the mix looks good too. I've not been without my soul patch since I was a teenager.

I had a girlfriend who hated me shaving my head, but that was years ago and now I'm with someone who loves me for who I am.

You'll get there dude!

[Baldstu]

Herehere zed and confidence what little I know of women they are fickle and the opposite can mean an attraction . Its the inner person that matters

[Cris]

Hey all! As many fellow posters, I decided to join because I am going bald. I'm in my mid 20s, and my ex girlfriend told me last night that she isnt physically attracted to me anymore, for I am going bald

Well I'm no longer interested in or attracted to my ex girlfriends.
I see it as a normal thing, by my side.

[b.driscoll]

  Sounds to me that her issues have more to do with herself..............and less to do with your hair. Most of us here have been through the ''wars,'' and all you can do is try to stay positive,  don't smother,   and be yourself.  Good luck!

[Baldstu]

Trust what  the other guys  say  , there is more to this than shaving your head wy she  is not attracted to you  it may be the universe protecting you from a disastrous relationship

[xnewyawka]

Sounds like she's an ex for a reason, keep it that way. Shave your dome, get it out there and stand proud. You'll soon see how the new found confidence will have an effect, on you and those around you as well.

[Sir Harry]

As a recent divorcee, I can understand how "exes" get to you...sometimes to see if they still can hit that "nerve". The key is to ignore her, because if you entertain your ex and her thoughts about your hair or otherwise, she wins....Go ahead and shave your head and free yourself from your hair....AND her! Good luck to you in the future!

[Arnie]

Ditto on everything said above. Welcome to SBGs!!!