Feeling Very Down.. Looking like sh$!t

[Acme]

I agree. There is nothing wrong with the way you look. You look frickin AWESOME.

[sanctified]

Thanks for the positive feedback.

[philp]

Dude, you look great. As far as analyzing other people and comparing them to you, few people are going to have 100% perfect features and for each person you notice having "perfect" headshape or whatever, they probably have an attribute that also affects their confidence. You definitely rock the look, though, and have absolutely nothing to worry about.

[baldjoeg]

Underdog 2 You look great.

Keep the dome shaved. You don't have a cone head. I would keep it shaved if I were You.

[sanctified]

Have my hair grown out and im looking back at these pics with anxiety. Hate my hair now but hate my headshape.

[mrzed]

I did not notice this thread back in September. Went back to check the photos and comments. I have to agree with the guys here on SBG.  The bald look is YOU.  You may thing 'pointy head'. I see a slick bald guy with a very nice head.  Looks great without hair. I'd be proud of that look and want to show it off.

[Ravenangel]

Have my hair grown out and im looking back at these pics with anxiety. Hate my hair now but hate my headshape. God damn pointy head. No remedy.

Maybe you are too hypercritical to yourself? I cannot see anything bad or ugly in your headshape. You can believe me and the others. I assume none of us would have any reasons to deceit you :}

[D.A.L.U.I.]

Have my hair grown out and im looking back at these pics with anxiety. Hate my hair now but hate my headshape. God damn pointy head. No remedy.

Several bits of what you've posted  suggest that you might seriously consider some counselling--seriously.  There's no shame in it and you will probably find out what's causing all your negative attitudes.  It's not your head, sly or hirsute, that's on your head--you need to take care of some stuff on the inside. 

[BaldHDbiker]

I'm sorry to hear you are feeling down. You do look great sly and should be proud to wear it.

Are others in your life trying to influence your decision and thoughts? 

[sanctified]

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[tomgallagher]

Talk therapy works.

[stasiu]

We all have our own issues and cross to carry, in a way.  It's how you carry that cross that makes the difference.  If you don't like bald, then get a hair system (rug, toupee, whatever you want to call it) and hide under it.  Who ever said bald guys have NO hair to worry about was blind ... LOL.  Make the best of life as you only get one chance on this planet !

[D.A.L.U.I.]

Glad to hear you're working on it.  Not easy but well worth the effort--keep it up. You will get through it.

[Ravenangel]

I am in therapy or counseling whatever you want to call it. Sorry for the negativity of my post. It is just what I'm feeling at the moment. Feel stupid caring so much about looks, but I just feel like I lost a chunk of my identity. Let's face it bald is not for everyone. If it was so easy Sbg wouldn't even exist would it?

I don't think you have anything to apologize for. Everyone has negative thoughts, and if you are able to speak about them, this is a very good sign.

For me, it seems that you are unsatisfied in general - if you have hair, then this makes you unhappy, but if you have no hair, you worry about the shape of your head, though you have no real reasons for it.
I know self-acceptance is a heavy task; even if you have a good therapist, you have to work much on it.

[sanctified]

Really need advice on how to move forward.